Life is like a taco stand. Workers who are soft are like the soft tortillas, and they get bent every which way because the people in power know that they're pushovers. Workers who are more aggressive, assertive and hard-assed are like crunchy tacos, the bosses will be more careful with you because they're worried about how many tacos they have - intrapersonal relationships keeping the peace and what not. Hard tacos make it clear the way they like things, they're a boat-shaped taco shell to be filled with meat, cheese and vegetables. Soft tacos get used for burritos, mexican pizza, tortillas and whatever else somebody wants because they can bend them to their will. A crunchy taco always knows what to expect and their job is clearly laid out. A soft taco never knows what it's role is until it's told.

Be a crunchy taco not a soft taco.