To post or not to post... Yeah sure, why not.

How many of you on the glorious FF forum are in a committed relationship?
I am. 4 years, going on 5. Planning on staying that way til one of the two of us is dead. Hopefully at a fairly old age.


How many of you are curious about how others view relationships?
I'm usually curious about people's views on anything. Doesn't necessarily mean I agree with anyone, but I'm always willing to hear their opinions.

Have you had a threesome whilst being in a committed relationship?
No, though I wouldn't be totally against the idea if she was on board with it. Assuming the third was another female of course, I'd never share her with another dude. Hypocritical? Maybe. Do I gave an aardvark's anus? Not really.

Did it damage it? Did it make it better? What are your thoughts either way.
While I've never done it, I've never heard of it making things better. After living in a house with my mother who watched Maury and Springer and all that crap every day, I've heard my fair share of cheating stories beginning with a threesome in a relationship going south. If the relationship is going bad, adding another sex partner into the mix is probably not going to do it any favors. If the relationship is going great and you're just looking to experience something new, maybe. But I definitely would not trust a threesome to save a relationship, and would be cautious about trying it even in a good relationship.

Are there things you wouldn't do in a relationship, what are the things you wouldn't do unless you were in a relationship?
Plenty. I hold myself to a relatively strict code of honor in spite of my lack of morals. I never do anything I'd be ashamed to tell anybody later. If I'm contemplating doing something and I'd have to seriously ask myself if I'd be totally cool with telling her I'd done it, I probably wouldn't be, and should therefore not put myself in a bad position by doing it anyways. This means no cheating, I don't go to clubs or anything like that. As a general rule, I just avoid doing anything I really think she'd be upset with me doing. It's not really too tough. She doesn't mind any of the shit I like doing, and I get enough sex to where I don't feel the need or want to look for it elsewhere anyways.

How early is too early to get married.
If you have to ask yourself if it's too early, it's too early. When the time is right, you should be more sure of it than anything else in your entire life. If you're not sure, you end up on Maury or Springer making an ass of yourself for the entertainment of others. Seriously, growing up with a mother who watches that shit all the time has given me a healthy fear of doing stupid things in relationships.

Is there such thing as true love?
Absolutely.

Could a pornstar be capable of love?
Of course, though it might be harder for her to receive that love in return. But then, that should be true of anybody. If it comes easily, it's probably not real love. Real love can overcome pretty much any flaw in a person. Even him or her screwing a bunch of different people on camera for a living.

What is love?
Dunno if I can really put it into words, but I'll give it a shot. Love is a bond beyond all others with someone. Someone you'd live, for, someone you'd die for. Someone to whom you'd entrust all your hopes and dreams, someone with whom you would willingly share each and every moment of your existence. Someone you can forgive for all of their flaws, and anything they do, no matter how terrible. The most important part is, love is eternal an unbreakable. The statement "I used to love ___" is a contradiction of terms. If anything was ever able to sever that bond, it was not love.

Baby dont hurt me?
What if she's into BDSM?

Do you think its a good idea to bring sex toys into a relationship if the man feels inadequate?
I don't feel inadequate, but we still use em. Variety makes everything more interesting.

If the reason is a feeling of inadequacy though, I'd say probably yeah. A good relationship is based on a hell of a lot more than sex, but being able to satisfy your partner is still nice. I guess the main question here is, why does he feel inadequate? Is it because he actually needs a magnifying glass to find his peter, or is he just pissed because he doesn't have the foot long penis as thick as his leg he saw in that porno one time? It really doesn't take THAT much to satisfy the average woman. If it's necessary, sure as long as it's actually working. Again, not something I personally would trust to save a relationship, but if it helps, it helps.


Are you comfortable having sex in front of your friends (whilst they may be performing also.)
No, that's something I do in privacy only. What goes on between me and her is to remain between me and her as far as I'm concerned.

Are you against oral sex?
Not at all. I like oral, both giving to and receiving from her.

Do you even enjoy sex? Do you do it for her/him?
Yup, sex is nice. We pretty much just do it whenever she wants it though. I'm not terribly demanding and I'm not really picky about the time, and she's interested fairly often, so I get enough. And I've never NOT wanted to when she has.


Have you been caught?
Nope. We're ninjas. Done it in some unusual places too, but again, what happens between us, stays between us, so I won't get into that XD

Are you shy when it comes to topics like this?
Can be, mostly because I'm not sure how well she'd like me sharing our sex life with random people on the internet, but when nobody here actually knows me, I don't have much problem with it.

Would you ever participate in group sex?
I don't even like being with groups when sex isn't involved, so no. I'd be at least a little uncomfortable with 3, any more than that, no thanks.

How does your partner feel about some of your views on sexuality?
Dunno really, never really asked. The sex is good, all that really matters far as I'm concerned.

Do you have any strange fetishes?
Depends what you consider strange. We're into BDSM, but as I understand, that's actually not terribly uncommon. We're probably MORE into it than other couples with an interest, but the fetish itself is fairly common.

Do you think food and sex go well together?
Depends what you mean by that. If you mean eating while trying to have sex, I'd say that's kinda weird, but then I'm sure there are people who'd disagree with that. Whatever floats you and your significant others boat I guess.

If you're talking putting whipped cream, maybe chocolate syrup or caramel on her and then cleaning it up without water or paper towels, yeah, that's always fun. I like caramel myself.

Do you smoke after sex? Do you smoke during sex?