Well I'm of the opinion most people shouldn't have kids. In the end most do but it's not the prettiest thing. Call me crazy but you have to take in the factors that you're spending time with your spouse, so that cuts personal time away, which everyone needs. Then factor work in and your hobbies. If you still can manage you want a child that you'll have to tend to and take care of for the rest of your life or at least the next 20 or so years.

To have a kid takes a lot of time and input. So being able to divide work, spouse, and kid time properly, plus your own for sanity sake. Then divide money and not want to stab someone at the end of the week takes alot. People think of things in too much fo a static sense. People change, as in everyone and it's hard to predict. I firmly believe the child is the most important part of the relationship once you decide to have one. So that means petty shit you have to put aside. Now I was the child in a marriage that failed when both people changed and couldn't see eye to eye. Yet in the heat of it I was forgotten by both sides. So I know how important it is to put in time and get your priorities straight if you decide to do the family thing, not just say I want this so lets do it.

I don't want kids at least not anytime soon. I've thought if I do it should be somewhere in my early to mid 30's but that's just my rough idea. I won't have a kid if I can't support him or her. Unlike most of the parents who send them to the grandparents so they can get their shit straight even though they're stocking shelves for $8.00 an hour buying smokes and booze with it. I'll need to be in a good financial standing, happy and realize it's gonna be life changing not a 9-5 thing.

And that's why I believe in both birth control and rubbers cause you can't be too careful!