Saying it and following along with a song is perfectly fine, if they didnt want us white people to say it they wouldnt have put in the snogs right...I have four black friends that I grew up with and they are like my brothers and when we hang out they refer to me as there ***** and in return I refer to them as the same thing...But outside of my friends I would never use the "N Word" for simple reason I used it once before when I was young around a group of black people thinking it was cool because all my friends were okay with it well I got my ass beat down by about 6 black people...That is exactly why I never use it outside of my friends...