Are you a sore loser when you play vidgy games?
I'm not competative, I've never had the motivation to "own" people unless they do something that really annoys me. On example would be on WoW: I saw an Alliance Mage on my Horde Rogue who was much lower level than me so I left them alone. 5 Minutes later I see they ganked a lvl 18 Hunter, never saw them again but if I did I would have ganked them.

However last night in a different area a paladin came and tried to gank me but I escaped. He came back later but got me so I logged onto my 80 Warlock and went to the Alliance town and camped him... logged out and 5 hours later when I logged back in I saw his corpse still there. Teach him to touch my alt.

Have you ever had to (or wanted to) lose so that another player (or players) would feel better?
Yeah, if they can keep up with me I will do something to gimp myself or what not.

Do you think what happened was right?
Yeah its understandable.

Do you think how it was handled was right?
Why wouldn't it be?

(Guys Only) Do you ever feel like doing this because you believe girls need a leg up in vidgy games?
I don't think gender matters, going back to WoW theres a few females in my guild and they're just as capable as everybody else. I think the only thing is most people don't see girls as gamers in general but I feel it depends on the person not the gender.