Well, I'm not a lady, but seeing as I'm gay, I can count in the having a boyfriend department. Note: This thread doesn't have to just apply to Women Cain, just something to keep in mind next time. Thanks

Now Then:

"Have you ever been in a controlled relationship?"

I was dating this one guy a few years ago. We started off great, but as time went on, I noticed that he started becoming more aggresive. And he would always think I was sleeping around with other dudes behind his back. Of course I wouldn't cheat on him, but was just acting weird. We would get into fights as well, but I still cared for him, but it got to the point that enough was enough, plus their were better men out there that would treat me good, so I had to break it off.


"Have you ever been in a relationship that you thought was SO RIGHT, even though your family disapproved, only later to 'snap out of it' and wondered what you were thinking?"

Like I said in the last paragraph, it was with that guy. My mom of course was against me and him but that was years ago, she's (alittle) more accepting now. I loved him, but had enough of the abuse, so I left. It was the smart thing to do.


Cain, I believe your sister could do better then her current boyfriend. Continuing on the track she's on will most likely lead to heartbreak or worse. For her benefit, sit her down and have a long talk with her, and explain that their are better dudes in the river of life, dont settle for trash.