Yeah I agree it's best to keep it open. So far nobody has gone off the handle so why bother closing it?

I've noticed something about tff in general. Unless you're here to post porn and tell everyone to **** off then you have a really good shot at not being banned. I know people who have been warned and told to stop over and over. Mind you newer
members I'm speaking about and still if anything people cut corners to slap them on the wrists and say to not do it again. So I really can't see how people might see others as unfair.

I came here when I was 16 and didn't know anyone just like everyone else who joins. Yet it worked out for me. All I did was be respectful and not do anything stupid. Which really isn't hard. I never got the feeling that others had it in for me or hated me. And they didn't. Same as then, things haven't changed. Old members aren't out to get anyone or make new people look stupid. It's almost like people are afraid of talking to eachother anyway. I see the new click of people who won't talk to the old click who used to dominate the aim chat, not the current msn chat. So things change but always remain. Yet all people need to do is communicate and you'll see the others don't bite.

The only 2 other staff members I talk to on a regular basis are OceanEyes and Chez. They're friends now but back in the "Day" neither ever was too hot on the other. BUT they didn't speak to eachother either it was just what he said she said or who he was with who knew her and so on. Finally they actually both spoke to eachother and now they're friends. See my point? Just like gravity all it takes is a little...push (Yes I know)