If you have a problem with a post or think that it goes beyond the rules of the forum that we set send us a report. That is what it is there for. I check what I can in a day, but I'm a busy person. Seeing the reports I investigate them. If you say there is an issue with family friend content I'll be the first to jump over there. If you think there is a problem with the thread don't just say it to yourself do something about it. We may not have seen it yet. I can't go read everyone's journal, though hearing that there may be warnable content in there I just might have to start.

As for the supposed double standard. Things like images we got on people pretty much immediately. If I see something, I'm on it quickly. When it comes to threads and text there is a certain level of a line that I draw. It sounds like a double standard, but it is not. It is allow people some freedom without giving them everything. When someone starts going into lengthy details though then it becomes a problem. If it is just a quick I do this so many times, you aren't being explicit. Which is about where the PG-13 ends. Once you start becoming explicit then its time to be looked at.

If you have problems with a post or thread report it and I'll take a look at it. Make sure you clearly say what your complaint is and I'll look at it. I can't be everywhere on the forums, we need our members to be responsible and report things, not just say that is bad and move along. Ignoring it won't get it fixed.