Quote Originally Posted by Chez Daja View Post
...So you mean rape, right? I've never had accidental sex with anybody, neither has anybody I know all that well...

As for misguided, I don't understand. Are you talking about peer pressure? That I could understand a little more, but I believe people shouldn't have to follow in line with their friends. (That wasn't directed at you whatsoever, though, so please don't think I was saying that about you.)


I can understand where you're coming from, but I don't agree with it. I was raised not to sleep around with people, and even the thought of it isn't pleasant for me. On the other hand, I have never dreamt of having many sexual partners. The thought of it makes me feel ill. Again, it's not direct at anybody, it's just the way I feel, and that was not only installed onto me by my mother, but also by my views of todays' society.

I hope that cleared a couple of things up for you, Nathan, and that you're not insulted by what I've said here...

On that note;
Sex isn't something casual to me and it never has been. I wanted to be in love before I gave my body to somebody, and that's what I did.
Nah I didn't mean rape, I was more referring to some who didn't really understand the significance whatsoever. Like 14 year old me for example. And some just did it as it felt good, like a drug it's not the easiest thing to put a lid on, raging hormones and all that.

As for peer pressure I tend to see that more as an excuse myself. It's not something a person should use to defend their own choices. No offense taken on my behalf, it was more wanting to clear that one bit up.

As for that last bit, I respect that myself. It shows strength of character in a way. At least down here...

Thank you for indulging me.