One of my friends is going thru a divorce - lets jus say he couldnt keep it in his pants - n I think she's feeling the same way u did. She's distant whenever we get together which is completely understandable bt its hard sometimes trying to not seem like we're taking pity on her. I try not to overthink it n just hug her n make her laugh cause Im funny as shit.

The food thing at weddings can be tricky at times. Thankfully most of the weddings Ive attended the couple have let me kno well in advance that I'll have a customized menu which is really gracious of them bt 8 times out of 10 I havent been able to eat the wedding cake - they're jus so pretty. I could have bt dnt really want to lol. I jus wait till I get home, make sure I eat beforehand n always have my own snacks eg raspberry licorice on hand in case I collapse lol.