Like everyone is trying to tell you. It depends on the person whether they think it is ugly or not. I really think you are making this more complex than it is. More people are hard wired to react positively towards those in a normal weight range then not. It's just life. Just like "IF" there are more people in the world that prefer blonds to brunettes....it's not about gaining a common conception to be followed....it's about what makes our primal instincts react positively. And for what it's worth there are actual studies that show most men are attracted to darker haired woman due the to genetic dysfunction in a blonds DNA. Just like me wanting a man who has brown hair and brown eyes. I am not trying to push brown hair and eyes on anyone; I am looking for someone I can mate with and get the results I want in our off spring.
To me you are asking, "do we have the right to put someone down for the way they look." We are all adults. The answer is no. The usual common answer to that is no. So unless you have a different question please move on from that. Especially in asking if it is ok to do so just so someone changes who they are as a person. It's insulting to say the least. We may form opinion that are not to everyone's liking but as human beings the majority of us in here are not trying to hurt anyone.
If those that are overweight read this thread and get a eating disorder than there was something wrong with their wiring to begin with.









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