Is there anything as unproductive as a shouting match with a friend, relative or spouse? Instead of yelling things at the same time and you can't even hear what the other's saying. Say you have a shouting match with a friend, shouldn't you agree it should go like so;

Friend 1: Hey asshole, you're a ****tard. Furthermore, you're gonna sit there and listen. When I'm done, you can say something.

Friend 2: Okay.

Friend 1: First, I just wanna say, you're an asshole. Second, and more importantly, you're a ****tard. END OF DISCUSSION.

So do you agree that arguments would be a lot better that way? Yes? No? Yes. Yeah that's how they should be.