Threesome Sex?(NSFW)

[WTFspin]

This is an honest topic.
I would like to hear some of your opinions on this topic.
If you think its wrong, tell us why.
And if you don't have a problem with it, explain.

[dimmufan]

I'm kinda yes and no on this topic. When I'm in a relationship I would say no, even if it's me and 2 women. I wouldn't feel right lettin someone else see my lady all nekkid, and I'm sure she wouldn't want someone else seein my nakedness. When I'm not in a relationship I wouldn't mind whatsoever having a threesome, but only if it's with 2 women. There is no way I'm gettin nekkid with some dude.

[Walter Sobchak]

Finally, a thread worth being in Intellectual Discussion.

I really want to have one. I had a chance once, but it was the bad kind, if you can get what I am saying.

What would be wrong with it? It is just more sex, which means more pleasure, which means more happiness. You always have the possibility of jealousy and developing of feelings for one over the other, but that is part of the game you choose to play.

[winterborn86]

I don't find anything wrong threesome, but the only problem i find with it, is that in quite a few cases it does cause jealousy in a relationship, i know i wouldn't want my partner having sex with another girl cos it something im not happy about, but are couples who do this threesome thing and have a perfect relationship, it all really depends on the type of person you are. Im a jealous type and being in a relationship a threesome would never appeal to me, but if i was single and the two others were single as well then it would be something i would think about.
Either way as i said at the start i find nothing wrong with it, if its the sorta thing you into then go right ahead and have fun

[Martin]

Depends on how open you are in your relationship. As I have an open relationship, it wouldn't be a problem, I wouldn't be against it but it would depend. It would be something we'd consider seriously and only if we found the right person that we were both happy doing it with.

[Phantom]

Now this is a topic Through Spin, this should be in Intellectual Discussion, I'm surprized no one said anything yet XD. Anyway I have nothing wrong with Threesome Sex. Not bragging or anything guys but I've had a few threesomes in the past haha, through me being gay and all it was a all guy orgy Sex Eruption ftw! But in seriousness, if your in a commited relationship then there shouldn't be any need for threesomes unless your partner says its ok, then go for it if you want lol, but the problem with that is and Winter brought up a good point is that if you focus on the extra member and not your lover then your partner will probarly be unhappy with you that you don't even bother with them, but really get it on more with the extra member of the threesome in question.

Through before I found my boyfriend Avery, I loved threesomes but Avery provides all the threesome in one package, he is good! XD But yeah threesome lovers, remember to use Protection!

[WTFspin]

It was in Intellectual Discussion.
No Some dude moved it here and warned me.
I dont get it.

But anyways...thanks you guys.
Good points.

[LocoColt04]

Apparently the ID mods felt it was General Chat quality, not Intellectual Discussion quality... and then moved it into the wrong forum. Awesome. Consider that fixed.

Also, you were warned appropriately; the ID forum has different rules, and your post didn't meet the requirements for the forum.

[WTFspin]

Ohh okay.
Well i figured it would go in Intellectual Discussion.
Rather that General.
But I'll take my punishment.
Anyways....on with the topic.

[Dimi]

I see nothing wrong with having a threesome. But as FFGuru had mentioned, it would depend on the person that I was seeing and how open our relationship would be. If she's fine with having another girl participate during sex without any jealousy or bitterness involved, then I'm all for it. I see it as a way to spice up our sex life and a fun adventure.

[Pete]

There were two episodes about this on Entourage. In fact, if anyone has HBO on Demand, I suggest you all check them out. They're called "Three's Company" and "Strange Days." Watch them in that order, it'll show the heat you can get into with a threesome.

Personally, it's something that I'd love to experience at least once in my life, with two ladies, of course. Mostly because sex with one woman is great, and it can only get better by introducing sex with another woman and then woman on woman sex on top of that. That's one incredible trifecta right there. Throw that in during a Mets, Jets or Islanders championship season, and I think I could die happy.

Though it could get awfully complicated awfully quickly, especially if I were dating one of them, because the chances are that I wouldn't really be down for it. I'm pretty much a one-woman man, so I'd have to be single and lets face it, these situations don't really fall into people's laps, you have to work to get them (craigslist aside). That being said, I'd be all for it, so long as everyone was comfortable and ok with the entire situation. I could just see the "fallout" being awkward.

Fun fact: Two of my exes have admitted to me that they've both had threesomes with 2 dudes after dating me... I don't know what that means, but it's kind of a grimey fact.

But to quote Roman from GTA4, "I'd like to die on my hundredth birthday having a threesome with two gorgeous ladies."

I'm chock full of pop culture today, shazam.

[Changrules]

Oh baby i'm totally for any kind of threesome action...

My dream team threesome would be solid snake and kratos....

mmmmm just thinking about it makes me want to shout out TASTY!!!!
two muscular sweaty mega game giants fighting over my curvaceous feminine body...

BRING IT ON GAME HUNKS!

[Sinister]

At least this is a new and unexplored topic that poses interesting possibilities. But no, I'm not interested in a threesome. That's not to say that I decry them as immoral or sinful. I simply don't think of sex as being a more-than-two person activity. That makes it much less personal in my estimation. A lot of people will come out and say sex is meant to be this...sex is meant to be that...blah blah blah. But the end story is, if it's not your cup of tea then it isn't meant for you. Threesomes just aren't in my nature. I like every facet of sex to be intimately private concealed and personal, it makes it that much more...I don't know...clandestine and inside(do pardon the pun). Sharing it with more than just one person is...well...it would be spoiling it in my opinion.

As for just trying a meaningless ménage à trois for sex sake? There again, I prefer sex TO be meaningful, anything else really takes the purpose out of it for me.

Sorry if all of that sounded like a grandma answer...but I'm speaking honestly.

-Sin

[Violet]

I view it as a faster way to spread STDs and a faster way to become a father/mother of two. Condoms don't always protect you 100%, either. You're just not 100% safe from the possibilities of pregnancies and aids, accept the fact.

I do not approve of threesomes as I think they are disgusting. Anyone who partakes in them, I honestly see them as a horny pig. I prefer the thought of sex being between the one person that you love. Anyone who wishes they were in a long-term relationship and is obsessed with sex and threesomes.. well, I believe for them, if they like.. have sex with eachother every damn day.. it jacks up some of the chemistry between them.

[Chez Daja]

I wouldn't have a threesome, ever. I once had a dream about myself and four other women though, to which I woke up very confused, considering I'm 100% straight.

I wouldn't even consider it. Call me boring but one man is good enough for me. And as for sex with another girl or two... I'd find it boring. I don't really find many women attractive in a way that I would actually go as far as to have sex with them.

[Storm]

I'm fine if other people are doing it, everyone do what they please as far as i'm concerned. Personally, i'm with Chez on this one. I never will have a threesome. I'm a believer in sex must be something special in a relationship. I don't agree with one-night stands or f-buddies, threesomes, orgies etc. That, and I can't imagine it being the most comfortable thing in the world :/

[ChloChloAriadne]

I really think it depends.

Threesomes are probably safer done with close friends/****buddies than with having two of them in a meaningful relationship, you know? Jealousy and other such issues can arise.

Trust is also a massive issue. I think it's different for everybody.

[ultima_trev]

I, for one, am not morally opposed to 3 way sex.

The only thing I am morally opposed to... is morality itself.

That being said, I would love to be involved in a threesome involving AZN American import models Kaila Yu and Carla Maria. Or better yet, get some genetic engineering action goin' and splice their genes together to make an even hotter AZN bi-atch to f*ck the living shit out of.

ORGASMIC!!!

(BTW, yall should do as Pete said and check out Entourage; it is the most f*ckin' epic TV program... EVAR!!!)

[bosola]

I think I would like to imagine that I would go for a threesome (preferably with two women, thank you very much), but it's the sort of idea that hits me like Final Fantasy: sure, people chopping down bad guys with illogically shaped and sized swords sounds great in principle, but in reality... would I really want somebody barging down the street, chopping up my neighbour's dog, coming into my house and opening the rather obvious looking treasure chest in my living room?

Exactly. That would suck quite a bit.

I think that some people need to work out the difference between whether they like something or just the principle: not just in things like threesomes, but also in aspects of life like joining up to the army, taking drugs, or buying a Nintendo Wii (come on people - it's not even really trying to be a games console any more!).

...

Sorry about that. I had an out of context experience there.

[Furore]

I personally have nothing against others having threesomes, but it's not for me. Hell, my rule at parties was pretty much that people could do whatever the hell they wanted with eachother, so long as they stayed out of my bedroom. The lock on my door enforced that rule.

Call it what you will, but I prefer to stick with one partner. Any more and not only wouldn't I be as fully there for the one person I like, but as several of my mates have found, there's also often complications. Especially when it involves the types of people who like to talk to all 74873234534 of their friends afterwards.

And then there's Ann's great point. Why give one person an odd itch, crabs or much worse when you can give it to two? But then that's mainly for people you either don't know or don't know as well as you think you do.

[Rinoa.Heartilly]

I've never actually had a threesome. I never really saw the appeal in it. I much prefer the one on one time you get with a person. I'm no good at sharing anyway.

[GHOSTED]

After me and my fiance got engaged...about...2 months later, we had a threesome with our lesbian friend just to Try it. I don't think it'll ever happen again...I'm really protective over her and don't want to share...But I don't see anything wrong with it. We're still together, we have been for 5 years, and It's going great.

[GypsyElder]

I'm not so sure if I would ever have a threesome, I'm a greedy bastard and if I had to have one that means it would have to be between me my boyfriend/husband and some other chick....I'm not sharing my man for one, and I don't want that leeway for it to be okay for my partner to have sex with someone else.

Also I don't need to have sex with another chick, guys are to hot for that and as for another guy, I don't need to get double team man handled thanks

[Unknown Entity]

I'm open minded about the idea. I mean, I won't jump into it immediately - it'd be something me and my partner would have to talk about for a while first, which means I won't say yes and I won't say no unless I was absolutely sure about what I wanted.

I wouldn't want a threesome relationship. It's me and my boyfriend/girlfriend. Whoever joins us would be a one time thing with no strings attached - unless we all had fun the first time, but even then it would be limited to every now and then things.

As for if we have a guy or another girl join us... it would depend on who I was with, and the sexual preferences of my partner (for example, if I have a boyfriend who claims to be straight and is protective of me, I don't think he'd enjoy another guy...).

[Block]

I have had two threesomes in my day, and I'm gonna go ahead and say that it's really not all it's cracked up to be. A whole lot of awkward, "Who does what?" "Does this go here?" and other various questions that just take all the passion and moment right out of it. Not to mention the difficulty of not trying to favor one of the two ladies (don't wanna hurt peoples feelings after all).

[Josh_R]

I have had four three somes. Three with two different women. It was alot of work trying to keep both of them satisfied. It was good though. The other was with a buddy of mine. We were in high school, and there was one girl that as begging for it. So the two of us took care of business. Before she was joking about our manhood, and stamina. Afterwards we showed her what was what...

[Sasquatch]

I have had two threesomes in my day, and I'm gonna go ahead and say that it's really not all it's cracked up to be. A whole lot of awkward, "Who does what?" "Does this go here?" and other various questions that just take all the passion and moment right out of it.

That's because you weren't doing it right. Threesomes need somebody to take charge -- you do your thing, and let the girls fill in (no pun intended) where they want. I mean, you don't have to be rude about it, but you don't hesitate and ask when you're with one partner, why do it with two?

Not to mention the difficulty of not trying to favor one of the two ladies (don't wanna hurt peoples feelings after all).

That's why you don't have threesomes with people you care about. Only with friends, at max. Because otherwise, it's definitely difficult to divide your attention -- your partner might rather have you give them more attention than you give the other person involved, no matter how much attention you give each of them. It can get touchy.

And if a woman agrees to a threesome and doesn't care to do it again, you bet your ass she'll bring that up months or years later, as a "look what I did for you" kind of thing.

[Pete]

And if a woman agrees to a threesome and doesn't care to do it again, you bet your ass she'll bring that up months or years later, as a "look what I did for you" kind of thing.

To be fair though, they'll do that even when you ask them to DVR something because you forgot or are running late from work.

[Priscilla]

I've wanted to and if given the chance I could list off a million girls that I would like to add to a session to spice it up. I would have done it without a second thought with any man I dated before. But Martin is different and I only want him and vice versa. I couldn't imagine him sleeping with someone else. So. It just doesn't work out.

But I feel like it is something I have missed out on and should have done earlier. I've had offers but.. Oh well. =]

[midgetbob]

Mmm... I'm going to have to go with Block here. Been there, done that, got the t-shirt... and it just wasn't worth the hassle in the end. Even if you're being chauvinistic about it and getting yours, it still turns out bad; even if it's just benefit friends. Someone always gets denied what they wanted from it (attention, the O, the whatever).

Plus, there is always tons more you can do with just one person that becomes difficult with another cook in the kitchen. As much as we've all become desensitized to sexy time from the media in various forms, it doesn't mean it's as great as they make it out to be, and I have a huge labido, haha.

I'd much rather be "workin' a double" with the girl then workin double time for two. ha.