Okay, this topic has come to mind recently and I just wanted to share my view on it with you guys.

One of my best lady friends had got in a relationship with one of my best mates. All seemed cool, they were still hanging around us, talking, laughing, the usual. But as the holidays started to roll around, they seemed to be less social.

My friends and I would call them going, "Wanna come out?", and they would respond with either "I'm too sick" or "I'm not allowed" and they would go to each others houses instead.

I haven't been out with one of them since the end of last year, and they keep to themselves and never talk to us anymore. Its like they have secluded themselves from the group.

Whats your views on this? Do you think your boyfriend or girlfriend should come before your friends?