Mr. Lonely :(

[Ryu-Kentoshii Hirokima]

(I Don't Really know where this should go, but please just move it to the proper place if it doesn't belong here)

I am so lonely, no one seems to want to talk to me, Yet, I try to make conversation with everyone. I just want to be friends with everyone, I Don't like to be just some Invisible FF Gamer. Anyway, this is just how I feel, and I am here to share it with you. I know that some of you don't like being invisible, and feel like no one likes you, and that they don't want to talk to you, this has happened to me before, and I feel like it is happening again. I feel your pain as well as my own. I just don't want to be known as the invisable whatever. This is just the way I feel. Thank you for taking the time to read, and possibly reply to this.

[Meigumi]

You are not aloooone~
*being sarcastic and Bartzy*

Anyhoo, you're not alone. Some people don't bother to check who's online, and others are usually quiet(me, but the internet is where I scream), so just to let you know, sometimes I feel invisible too, kupo.

[KeybladerXIII]

Ah, you're not alone my friend, some guys are just too busy..... or lazy. I myself am swamped with stupid Pre-Calculus Homework, which I hate with a passion. Don't worry about it.

[Victoria]

This is for literature. Not for QQs. Moving to...

...Hm.

Member Business.

Also; if you want people to talk to you, don't be pushy and put people on your family without asking them. Also, stop talking to people constantly throughout the day even when they aren't online. Just say hi once during the day, and that's it.

And also, don't spam. I implore you to take a gander at the forum rules just as a refresher, just so you can see what you've been doing wrong.

[Meier Link]

Good call on the move Toph but if this carries on the way it seems to be going I will move it to General Chat seeing the topic at hand seems to be the "invisibility to the forum" topic. Could be interesting to see what kind of responces people give from that area.

But to be on topic, Ryu. You have to realize that people are busy through out the day. Alot of us work, have families / significant others, or some just have to start getting ready for the school year that starts over the course of a few days / weeks. The forum is great but in real life, real life wins anyday. People will respond to you when they have a few minutes to spare. Some of us get on here to check the forum and really don't care to share in convo via PM with contacts that they have on MSN.

Be patient, people will respond to you when they have time. If you constantly keep on people they can or will see you as pushy which is not a good thing.

[RamesesII]

Hey buddy don't be like that i have your back, i think your a friendly person just wanting to interact with people online i know what you mean but like what Meier said as much as some of us want to live on here sometimes we just come to check the forum etc and of course real life does preside over everything so if some one doesn't reply straight away don't take to offence they could have things to do etc.

Now i hope you don't think of me like that because i don't reply all the time, i love talking to you when i have the time and if i have a good hour or so to spend online then i am always ready to listen etc i don't find you pushy as a matter of fact i love it when i log on and see a pending vm from someone just saying hi and checking in it doesn't nessecarily mean they want to chat then and there but it is just liek a friendly check up. I myself log on at work sometimes just to have a sticky beak while i am doing my timesheets or something and thats why i didn't respond earlier today when you saw me online because i had to scoot haha but some people can find it pushy all you have to do is send a message and wait for a reply that the good thing about the web conversations between people can go on for long periods at a time because they just reply to each other when they get the time but you ever see me on msn don't hesitate to chat i will be all ears. So hang in their buddy.

[DragonHeart]

One other thing to keep in mind is that sometimes people will be on the forum but idling, so if you send a message they won't see it right away. I keep the main page up just so I can refresh every once in an hour or four to check for interesting posts. Other than that I'm usually doing other things, which is why I didn't reply to that bunch of VMs you sent me the other day.

Keep in mind also that it takes time to become a member of any community. You'll get along with some people and not with others, just like the RL version. Following the forum rules and not going overboard with the VMs and such will help you be seen as less of "another annoying noob" and more as "Hey, it's Ryu". =P

Don't get me wrong, I like chatting (honestly, anyone who isn't looking to make social connections shouldn't be joining forums lol) and I don't really have a problem with you, you're just bubbly lol. I work with someone who has your kind of personality and bubbly people can be a little overwhelming sometimes for us quieter people. XD

~DragonHeart~

[Alpha]

Hey bro, you've got like 5 times the number of VMs and page visits than I have... you are not invisible by any stretch of the imagination. Just be bubbly and such, everyone here is nice

[Tallulah]

An idiot (actually an ex boyfriend of mine) on my MSN list recently lost my friendship by hassling me to talk to him for about thirty minutes. My boyfriend Paul was using my computer at the time, and I was at work, but this guy kept pushing and pushing for convo: "Hello." "Hello?" "I miss talking to you " "plz talk 2 me xx" "!" pretty much constantly for a half-hour. Paul was pretty embarrassed and irritated, and reported this back to me. I was so cross, and what surprised me about his pushiness was that he hadn't bothered to talk to me for 18 months!

So try not to be too pushy, and don't be offended (like this guy I just talked about was!) if people ignore you. Also, be yourself.

[Xanatos]

Don't talk like that, you're not lonely and you sure aren't an invisible member here. As far as I know you're nice person and it's always great to have chat with a person like you, but you must understand that many are busy and they don't have time to chat and also not everybody can response you immediately.
I have said to you before but I will say it again, whenever you need to chat with someone if I'm on this forum then feel free to droop by.

[TobiasRainey]

I know how you feel but like everyone else said not many people are on here 24/7 so just check in now and again to see whats going on.