Relationships and Sex

[Rowan]

How many of you on the glorious FF forum are in a commited relationship? How many of you are curious about how others view relationships? Have you had a threesome whilst being in a commited relationship? Did it damage it? Did it make it better? What are your thoughts either way. Are there things you wouldn't do in a relationship, what are the things you wouldn't do unless you were in a relationship? How early is too early to get married. Is there such thing as true love? Could a pornstar be capable of love? What is love? Baby dont hurt me? Do you think its a good idea to bring sex toys into a relationship if the man feels inadequate? Are you comfortable having sex in front of your friends (whilst they may be performing also.) Are you against oral sex? why? Do you even enjoy sex? Do you do it for her/him? (because they want it and you dont), Have you been caught? Are you shy when it comes to topics like this? Would you ever participate in group sex? How does your partner feel about some of your views on sexuality? Do you have any strange fetishes? Do you think food and sex go well together? Do you smoke after sex? Do you smoke during sex?

While a lot of this topic will eventually come down to personal opinion, the whole point is to find out why you think what you do and what you believe. A lot of it is quite personal, so as with my other threads, dont feel you need to answer every question.

[Yoko]

Holy shit Rowan. There are a lot of questions here.

I am not in a relationship, but I have had experience in Relationships and sex to give you a valid opinion. Let me just organize this for you

How many of you on the glorious FF forum are in a commited relationship?
Not I. I haven't been in a decent relationship in three years. That's not bad for only being 22 (23 in just over a month). I do have a few friends with benefits. Two of them found relationships. One lives close by and we see each other often. I don't know how long this will last though.

How many of you are curious about how others view relationships?
I'm not. I could care less about what others think. If I do however see a relationship going downhill or even violent/abusive/controlling or downrightabsolutelystupid, I will give them my opinion and help them break up if need be. I've done this two or three times.

Have you had a threesome whilst being in a commited relationship? Did it damage it?
No. I have never had a threesome, but it doesn't mean I don't want one. Most guys like it. Some girls are not too big on the idea.

Are there things you wouldn't do in a relationship?
No. Except maybe no cheating. That would be hypocritical of me though. I have been 'the mistress' before. Not exactly I position I like to be in though. I haven't been caught to the best of my knowledge.

How early is too early to get married?
A day is TOO EARLY! I would say a year-two years is still too early. It takes a long time to get to know someone. Unless you're living together, get to know each other's habits and so on. As long as you know you're ready to spend the rest of your life with someone, that's when you're ready to get married. If you happen to know by the first year, by all means, tie the knot. Just as long as you don't rush into it. If that happens, a divorce may happen within a couple years. I've seen it happen. I've also seen people somehow make it work. It all depends on how willing someone is to work through the fights/arguments and rough patches.

Is there such thing as true love? Could a pornstar be capable of love? What is love? Baby dont hurt me?
Yes there is such thing as true love. I haven't felt it myself, but I believe it exists. Anyone is capable of love. Pornstars are people too . Love is a certain attachment or bond that two people share. It is not an emotion or a feeling. It is a very powerful force that 'connects' two beings. Any feeling is called lust. The emotion that comes with it is happiness. A mix of lust and happiness is often mistaken for love. But I have been in the position before where all I felt was a sexual desire. Nothing more. The connection was gone, as was the relationship. If there is no connection, love cannot exist. Lust can. If you live a life of lust, you will only see disappointment. I have been in that situation before too. I also tell people that if they aren't happy in a relationship, GET OUT! Happiness is a stand alone emotion itself. Also not to be mistaken for love. You can also like a person and be happy. Love is something that can grow or shrink in almost a heartbeat. Love can be the greatest experience one can ever go through. It can also tear you apart when it goes sour. I could go on for hours about it, but I think you get the picture.

Do you think its a good idea to bring sex toys into a relationship if the man feels inadequate?
Have a talk with your partner if you don't feel comfortable about it. There's no harm in trying. If you're still uncomfortable, let your partner know and find something else that suits your curiosity. Toys aren't for everyone, but at least you can't say you haven't tried.

Are you comfortable having sex in front of your friends (whilst they may be performing also.)
As long as they're doing it too, I don't care. I would feel uncomfortable if they were watching.
Are you against oral sex?
No. It's pleasurable and I'm good at it.

Do you even enjoy sex? Do you do it for her/him? (because they want it and you dont)
Lately, no. Not at all. I do it for him because he enjoys it. It's not that I'm disgusted by it, it's just that it doesn't feel pleasurable anymore. I don't know. I used to love sex. But now it seems like a chore. I still do it though. Apparently I'm really good.

Have you been caught?
LOL! Not exactly. I was really loud once and pissed off my roommate. She never said anything, but I knew she was pissed.

Are you shy when it comes to topics like this?
Yes? Would I have just told you my life story if I was?

Would you ever participate in group sex?
I don't see why not.

How does your partner feel about some of your views on sexuality?
My 'partner' probably does. I don't talk to him about it much. The type of 'relationship' we have is nothing more than a friends with benefits deal. No strings attached. I have been that type of person before so it comes easy to me. Our views are roughly the same as far as I understand.
^EDIT: I'm a moron sometimes and can't read. We haven't talked about it.


Do you have any strange fetishes?
Nope

Do you think food and sex go well together?
Yes. Strawberries, chocolate, whipping cream. Messy but fun.

Do you smoke after sex? Do you smoke during sex?
I don't smoke. I'm healthy

This about sums up my views.

[RamesesII]

Sweet I was waiting for someone to do this so now I can quote and replace your answers with mine mwhaha.


How many of you on the glorious FF forum are in a commited relationship?
I am married and have been for 5 years this December

How many of you are curious about how others view relationships?

I'm not. I could care less about what others think. If I do however see a relationship going downhill or even violent/abusive/controlling or downrightabsolutelystupid, I will give them my opinion and help them break up if need be. I've done this two or three times.

I could almost quote this word for word hey wait I just did.
Although you probably care more than me, I couldn't gives a rats arse about other peoples relationships tbh but that is probably the male in me wait thats implying I have more than just male in me. My best mate would bring his GF's around to meet me and I would tell him straight then and there what I thought but that was only my opinion and has nothing to do with his decisions.

Have you had a threesome whilst being in a commited relationship? Did it damage it?
I want a threesome with Rocky and Che

Are there things you wouldn't do in a relationship?
I am a very loyal person not only to my wife but to my friends and work colleagues, I give it out easily (haha makes me sound like a whore) the first time but you abuse that trust or loyalty and you will have a god damn hard time re-acquiring it.

How early is too early to get married?
Depends on the couple and the partnership if it feels right to both of you then go for it elope, I got married at 20 and my wife was 19 and we have had our rough patches and we have worked through them it all boils down to communication and always say sorry none of this bullshit about who should say it first, plus equality is the key a woman is not born to be in the kitchen anymore wake up and smell the coffee people times have changed a woman has the same amount of right to go and have a career and I don't care what other men say bring it on you lazy bastards.
My wife and I were engaged three months after we met and got married about year after we met.

Is there such thing as true love? Could a pornstar be capable of love? What is love? Baby dont hurt me?
WTF is this s hit if pornstars found love then there would be no porn.

Do you think its a good idea to bring sex toys into a relationship if the man feels inadequate?
You would have to be stupid as a man not to let your partner not have a toy that way the woman has as much chance as the male to climax. There are other ways like oral but like R.Kyra said it depends on the opinions of the couple, you may be a super stud and last for hours everyone is different but if she was relying 100% on the toy to do the job, then men you need to see a doctor unless it is for periods when you aren't home. Better a toy than another man.

Are you comfortable having sex in front of your friends (whilst they may be performing also.)
Weird much

Are you against oral sex?
Me likey both ways.

Do you even enjoy sex? Do you do it for her/him? (because they want it and you dont)

Lately, no. Not at all. I do it for him because he enjoys it. It's not that I'm disgusted by it, it's just that it doesn't feel pleasurable anymore. I don't know. I used to love sex. But now it seems like a chore. I still do it though. Apparently I'm really good.

How about I test you

Have you been caught?
Its the worst thing when you going at it and all of a sudden you feel a child hop up on the bed beside oblivious to what you are doing because they are half asleep, biggest turnoff hahahaha.

Are you shy when it comes to topics like this?
Well we will soon know whoever doesn't post is shy about it.

Would you ever participate in group sex?
Yeah Rocky and che and Gypsy and R.Kyra and add your name if you want to join.

How does your partner feel about some of your views on sexuality?
We freely talk about it.

Do you have any strange fetishes?
What is classed as strange in the old days isn't so strange nowdays.

Do you think food and sex go well together?
Roast beef with gravy and roast pumpkin and potatoes.

Do you smoke after sex? Do you smoke during sex?
I smoke during sex to much friction and we ran out of lube.

[Heartless Angel]

To post or not to post... Yeah sure, why not.

How many of you on the glorious FF forum are in a committed relationship?
I am. 4 years, going on 5. Planning on staying that way til one of the two of us is dead. Hopefully at a fairly old age.


How many of you are curious about how others view relationships?
I'm usually curious about people's views on anything. Doesn't necessarily mean I agree with anyone, but I'm always willing to hear their opinions.

Have you had a threesome whilst being in a committed relationship?
No, though I wouldn't be totally against the idea if she was on board with it. Assuming the third was another female of course, I'd never share her with another dude. Hypocritical? Maybe. Do I gave an aardvark's anus? Not really.

Did it damage it? Did it make it better? What are your thoughts either way.
While I've never done it, I've never heard of it making things better. After living in a house with my mother who watched Maury and Springer and all that crap every day, I've heard my fair share of cheating stories beginning with a threesome in a relationship going south. If the relationship is going bad, adding another sex partner into the mix is probably not going to do it any favors. If the relationship is going great and you're just looking to experience something new, maybe. But I definitely would not trust a threesome to save a relationship, and would be cautious about trying it even in a good relationship.

Are there things you wouldn't do in a relationship, what are the things you wouldn't do unless you were in a relationship?
Plenty. I hold myself to a relatively strict code of honor in spite of my lack of morals. I never do anything I'd be ashamed to tell anybody later. If I'm contemplating doing something and I'd have to seriously ask myself if I'd be totally cool with telling her I'd done it, I probably wouldn't be, and should therefore not put myself in a bad position by doing it anyways. This means no cheating, I don't go to clubs or anything like that. As a general rule, I just avoid doing anything I really think she'd be upset with me doing. It's not really too tough. She doesn't mind any of the shit I like doing, and I get enough sex to where I don't feel the need or want to look for it elsewhere anyways.

How early is too early to get married.
If you have to ask yourself if it's too early, it's too early. When the time is right, you should be more sure of it than anything else in your entire life. If you're not sure, you end up on Maury or Springer making an ass of yourself for the entertainment of others. Seriously, growing up with a mother who watches that shit all the time has given me a healthy fear of doing stupid things in relationships.

Is there such thing as true love?
Absolutely.

Could a pornstar be capable of love?
Of course, though it might be harder for her to receive that love in return. But then, that should be true of anybody. If it comes easily, it's probably not real love. Real love can overcome pretty much any flaw in a person. Even him or her screwing a bunch of different people on camera for a living.

What is love?
Dunno if I can really put it into words, but I'll give it a shot. Love is a bond beyond all others with someone. Someone you'd live, for, someone you'd die for. Someone to whom you'd entrust all your hopes and dreams, someone with whom you would willingly share each and every moment of your existence. Someone you can forgive for all of their flaws, and anything they do, no matter how terrible. The most important part is, love is eternal an unbreakable. The statement "I used to love ___" is a contradiction of terms. If anything was ever able to sever that bond, it was not love.

Baby dont hurt me?
What if she's into BDSM?

Do you think its a good idea to bring sex toys into a relationship if the man feels inadequate?
I don't feel inadequate, but we still use em. Variety makes everything more interesting.

If the reason is a feeling of inadequacy though, I'd say probably yeah. A good relationship is based on a hell of a lot more than sex, but being able to satisfy your partner is still nice. I guess the main question here is, why does he feel inadequate? Is it because he actually needs a magnifying glass to find his peter, or is he just pissed because he doesn't have the foot long penis as thick as his leg he saw in that porno one time? It really doesn't take THAT much to satisfy the average woman. If it's necessary, sure as long as it's actually working. Again, not something I personally would trust to save a relationship, but if it helps, it helps.


Are you comfortable having sex in front of your friends (whilst they may be performing also.)
No, that's something I do in privacy only. What goes on between me and her is to remain between me and her as far as I'm concerned.

Are you against oral sex?
Not at all. I like oral, both giving to and receiving from her.

Do you even enjoy sex? Do you do it for her/him?
Yup, sex is nice. We pretty much just do it whenever she wants it though. I'm not terribly demanding and I'm not really picky about the time, and she's interested fairly often, so I get enough. And I've never NOT wanted to when she has.


Have you been caught?
Nope. We're ninjas. Done it in some unusual places too, but again, what happens between us, stays between us, so I won't get into that XD

Are you shy when it comes to topics like this?
Can be, mostly because I'm not sure how well she'd like me sharing our sex life with random people on the internet, but when nobody here actually knows me, I don't have much problem with it.

Would you ever participate in group sex?
I don't even like being with groups when sex isn't involved, so no. I'd be at least a little uncomfortable with 3, any more than that, no thanks.

How does your partner feel about some of your views on sexuality?
Dunno really, never really asked. The sex is good, all that really matters far as I'm concerned.

Do you have any strange fetishes?
Depends what you consider strange. We're into BDSM, but as I understand, that's actually not terribly uncommon. We're probably MORE into it than other couples with an interest, but the fetish itself is fairly common.

Do you think food and sex go well together?
Depends what you mean by that. If you mean eating while trying to have sex, I'd say that's kinda weird, but then I'm sure there are people who'd disagree with that. Whatever floats you and your significant others boat I guess.

If you're talking putting whipped cream, maybe chocolate syrup or caramel on her and then cleaning it up without water or paper towels, yeah, that's always fun. I like caramel myself.

Do you smoke after sex? Do you smoke during sex?

[Freya]

How many of you on the glorious FF forum are in a commited relationship?
I am, for almost 2 years now.

How many of you are curious about how others view relationships?
I am. =D
Although I often meet people who tell me they can't live without a relationship, which I find pretty... weird. I've been "alone" for four years before my current relationship - I had LOTS of fun. xP

Have you had a threesome whilst being in a commited relationship?
No. But I would like to, really. It's just that I'd like to have my boyfriend twice for that. Or me. But that'd be too weird for me.

Did it damage it? Did it make it better?
I'm a woman. It would totally damage the relationship. "You stared at her as if she were better than me, you bastard!" Haha, no seriously, I think it would damage something. I'm not sure why, but I suppose I just know myself good enough.

Are there things you wouldn't do in a relationship, what are the things you wouldn't do unless you were in a relationship?
Things I wouldn't do in a relationship: lying to him, having sex with other men (or women, which I wouldn't EVER do), betraying him in every possible way, ...
Things I wouldn't do unless I'm in a relationship: having sex - couldn't do that with a person I just know, though one time I almost did it... ^^"


How early is too early to get married.
<1 year relationship is WAY too early.
For me, >4 years is okay. Or when she's pregnant. Let's hope that'll not happen to me, although it seems to be a "family curse", as it happened to my mother AND my sister. (But they both wanted children, anyways. I want children as well but not NOW!)

Is there such thing as true love?
I think so, yes. At least that's what I think I'm experiencing right now. But I think love is something everyone defines for him/herself. So everyone will have a different definition of true love as well.

Could a pornstar be capable of love?
Sure. Some people are able to differentiate between sex and love. Some aren't. Pornstars probably are pretty much able to...

What is love? Baby dont hurt me?
ARGH now that song's stuck in my head! >.<
Love is not just having butterflies destroying your stomach, but also taking care of someone, being there for someone, everything you have with close friends. You just also have sex.
But I really can't describe the feeling.

Do you think its a good idea to bring sex toys into a relationship if the man feels inadequate?
Erm, no. I don't really like sex toys. A man will never be inadequate!

Are you comfortable having sex in front of your friends (whilst they may be performing also.)
NO! *shudders*
I'd never never never ever have sex in front of FRIENDS! I don't like ANYONE watching. I would like myself watching, if I had to choose one person. But even that would be weird.

Are you against oral sex? why?
Why should I...?
I'm for everything my boyfriend and I enjoy. xP

Do you even enjoy sex?
Yes, I do. xP

Do you do it for her/him? (because they want it and you dont)
I did once. He was pretty sad because of that, so now we just have sex when we BOTH want.

Have you been caught?
No, but once a friend of him called right inbetween. ^^"

Are you shy when it comes to topics like this?
Hm, when I talk about it with friends of family: no. With strangers: rather yes.

Would you ever participate in group sex?
NO X_X

How does your partner feel about some of your views on sexuality? Do you have any strange fetishes?
At the beginning he was a biiiit astonished by what I wanted to try. I don't really have strange fetishes, I just like to try out new things. He wasn't that keen on trying everything out at the beginning, though. xP

Do you think food and sex go well together?
No. And I wouldn't like it. Really. Poor food. :/

Do you smoke after sex? Do you smoke during sex?
I don't smoke at all, so. No and no.

[Clint]

How many of you on the glorious FF forum are in a commited relationship?
I am married to a woman half my age. A black woman, too, so I'm not racist. Or at least nobody can prove that I am.

How many of you are curious about how others view relationships?
Not I.

Have you had a threesome whilst being in a commited relationship?
No, but I've cheated on a few of my wives. It's not my fault that they turned into complete bitches who were only after my money once I became successful. It's not like I wouldn't have shared my assets. I was married to them after all. Whores, I tell you.

Did it damage it? Did it make it better?
Well I never had a threeway, but cheating damaged the relationships. I got divorced twice. Well, technically I was never married to Sondra, but we were cohabited, so it was basically the same thing as a marriage.

Are there things you wouldn't do in a relationship, what are the things you wouldn't do unless you were in a relationship?
I would not have sex with another woman. I love my current wife. Well, maybe not "love," but I tolerate her. Besides, she's already in her mid 40's. She won't live that much longer.


How early is too early to get married.
6 o'clock. Nobody wants to wake up that early to go to church.

Is there such thing as true love?
Probably, and most likely, various people have found their "true love." For me, not so much. I prefer to have children with a bunch of different women and then abandon them all.

Could a pornstar be capable of love?
If "love" is a reference to "sex," then yes. If love is a reference to love, then no. Pornstars are monsters incapable of human emotion.

What is love?

A four letter word for "sex."

Baby dont hurt me?

I will shoot you in the knee if you beg for mercy.

Do you think its a good idea to bring sex toys into a relationship if the man feels inadequate?
If a man is feeling inadequate, then he's a pussy with no balls.

Are you comfortable having sex in front of your friends (whilst they may be performing also.)
I'm not that much into sex, so no.

Are you against oral sex? why?
Yes, because the mouth is a breeding ground for bacteria.

Do you even enjoy sex?
Not really. It's something you grow out of with age. All I want to do now is run my academy and take over the world.

Do you do it for her/him? (because they want it and you dont)
Nope. I don't care for my wife.

Have you been caught?
Yes, cheating. Not in the act, but yes. It lead to divorce.

Are you shy when it comes to topics like this?
No.

Would you ever participate in group sex?
I would shoot everybody in the knee.


Do you think food and sex go well together?
I think food goes well as a replacement for sex.

Do you smoke after sex? Do you smoke during sex?
I don't smoke. I never have.

[Pete]

How many of you on the glorious FF forum are in a commited relationship?
Meeee! For almost two whole years. Yes, I'm surprised too.

How many of you are curious about how others view relationships?
I am and I'm not. I care about mine, and I care how my girl and I view it. As for everyone else, I do value other people's opinions on mine, especially my closest friends.

Have you had a threesome whilst being in a commited relationship?
I would and I wouldn't. I do love sex, and four boobies are better than two, but I feel like it would most definitely drive a wedge between us, and it would definitely be with a chick. Actually, it'd be a real blow to my self esteem if I was ditched for a chick.

Did it damage it? Did it make it better?
No good can come of things like that. There's always jealousy and whatnot.

Are there things you wouldn't do in a relationship, what are the things you wouldn't do unless you were in a relationship?
I dunno. I never want to say never for any situation, because crazy shit can happen, and you really never know. Obviously if I were single, I'd probably work my magic and see what could happen. Being in a relationship, obviously, I'm not going out to get laid, and I tend to feel guilty if I get into a conversation with a girl at the bar and start chatting it up. I can't help it, but I'm not gonna go full tard and not even have a conversation.


How early is too early to get married.
It depends, you really should know the person, and y'know, take the time to get to know them and make sure that you're compatible. I would even go so far as recommending living together for a little bit, just to make sure that you won't drive each other batshit crazy. Oh, and sex. You've gotta test drive the car before you buy it.

Is there such thing as true love?
Sure there is. What and who it is, you'll have to figure out on your own.

Could a pornstar be capable of love?
Why not? They're people too. Sure, there might just be a lot of sex, and it can lead to issues, but if people love each other enough, they can make it work; it just depends on how real everything is. An actor can act like he's married to someone else on tv, but can still go home to his wife and kids... pornstars are similar, but a wee bit different.

What is love? Baby dont hurt me?
Honestly, love is only fearlessness. The rest just happens.

Do you think its a good idea to bring sex toys into a relationship if the man feels inadequate?
That's a bizarre kind of question. I think the man would only feel inadequate if the lady made him to feel that way. If that's happening, I'd say there are bigger issues at hand. Granted, not every session may be mindblowing, but I can't see a toy being a replacement for intimacy. A good stand in? Maybe every once in a while, but nothing beats the real deal.

Are you comfortable having sex in front of your friends (whilst they may be performing also.)
It depends on the alcohol involved. I'm not uncomfortable having sex anywhere, but I'd consider it being more considerate than anything. Have I had sex in my ex's car, parked outside of a friends house during a party? Yes, but I figured it would be a little more private and considerate than taking over an entire room and being a douche. Overall, I don't mind it, but I'd prefer not to be inconsiderate towards anyone else.

Are you against oral sex? why?
Who could be? I love it, both giving and receiving. There are some days where I'd prefer to do nothing but admire the top of her head.

Do you even enjoy sex?
You betcha!

Do you do it for her/him? (because they want it and you dont)
I've done a lot of things in my life, but I've rarely done it when I didn't want to.

Have you been caught?
Several times, but it's never led to any consequences. The first time I ever had sex, the girls mom started to open the door. Luckily the door was stuck on its rail (accordion style door) and I had just enough time to pop my shorts back on and act all innocent like.

A second time, I was having some shower time fun with a now ex, and I'm pretty sure my dad came home from work early for lunch, knocked on the door, and then left. It was never spoken of.

I also got, not caught, but a college roommate informed me the next morning that he wasn't asleep, while I was going at it with the same girl. We laughed over a beer.

Another time, I was making out with a girl in my car, outside of a Cheesecake Factory, and I caught some Mexican dishwashers staring at us, well, her, because her top was off. I honked my horn and they bolted.

Are you shy when it comes to topics like this?
Nope. I don't talk to my family about it though... just awkward.

Would you ever participate in group sex?
Nah.

How does your partner feel about some of your views on sexuality? Do you have any strange fetishes?
It's actually pretty similar, and as for fetishes, I don't think that it's anything weird. I mean, not like furries or anything like that. I just like it hot and kinda trashy hot.

Do you think food and sex go well together?
Not really. My girlfriend wanted to use whipped cream before, but I put a stop to that quickly when the nozzle scratched me... down there. I've also made myself a sandwich and enjoyed it in between sessions.

Do you smoke after sex? Do you smoke during sex?
No, but I'd like to have a cigar after a really intense day, just to say I did.

[Unknown Entity]

How many of you on the glorious FF forum are in a commited relationship?
Yes. I'm coming up to eight months on the 10th.

How many of you are curious about how others view relationships?
I am. I'm still quite young and I'm a little bit of a romantic at heart, so I like listening to other people discuss relationships. It gives me ideas, and I like seeing people happy if it's a good story.

Have you had a threesome whilst being in a commited relationship? Did it damage it?
No. I have never had a threesome, but that doesn't mean it's not something I'd like to try. I've spoken to my boyfriend about it, and he said he'll be okay with it if we were with another woman. Which I'm fine with, haha. I don't think it's something we will seriously consider any time soon though.

Are there things you wouldn't do in a relationship?
I'm sure there's a few things I wouldn't do, or would have to warm to the idea before I could. I definitely wouldn't cheat as I hate keeping secrets and hiding stuff from people I love. It puts me in sour moods and I stress out waaay too easily.

How early is too early to get married?
Anything less than a few years is too early. I'd say... four years plus a good couple of months living together, plus being a good age (twenty-six+) and then it's a good time to marry. I've had friends discuss marriage and babies within months of their relationships, and it makes me shudder. I don't understand why people think about it at such a young age and so rapidly.

Is there such thing as true love? Could a pornstar be capable of love? What is love? Baby dont hurt me?
True love is similar to believing in soul mates, and I don't believe in those. People can love more than one person in a lifetime, no matter how a previous relationship turned out. You don't necessarily move on to something better or worse, and I don't think it's a good way to think.

I also think pornstars can love. Sex isn't love, and love isn't sex. Just because sex is something some couples enjoy to display their love and affection, doesn't mean it belongs to couples who enjoy it. No, sex is reproduction. There's more to love and relationships than sex.

Do you think its a good idea to bring sex toys into a relationship if the man feels inadequate?
I've discussed this too, and we both think it's a cool idea. It's not about feeling inadequate or anything, just it's something new to try one day. Hell, he might find something he likes using, and I'll feel left out haha.

Are you comfortable having sex in front of your friends (whilst they may be performing also.)
I'm not really the exhibitionist type, but I'd be comfortable with it if my boyfriend was. As long as they were doing what they were doing and we were doing what we were doing with no switching, then ooooooorgi on babeh. But yeah, it'll have to be with friends we trust and don't find creepy (one of his friends creeps me the hell out, and it's an immediate turn off in the evening if he's so much as been in the same room as me that day).

Are you against oral sex?
Nope. I like it, he likes it and we're both good at it. Ftw.

Do you even enjoy sex? Do you do it for her/him? (because they want it and you dont)
Can't say I enjoy it as it's an experience I've not had yet. We're both new to it, and feel there's a lot more stuff we want to [non-sexually] do with each other yet. As for oral, it's only good if we're both in the mood or push the right buttons beforehand to trigger a mood.

Have you been caught?
Nope, but we've been disturbed a few times. It's hard not to be because we both still live in our parent's houses. My grandmother is the biggest offender in my house, and the cats at his place haha (he has like fifteen of them now because "YAY, KITTENS!!!").

Are you shy when it comes to topics like this?
With my parents and family, yes. Mum never really gave me "the talk" besides convincing me my period was a good thing. My teachers did most of the explaining, so I'm more comfortable with them haha. I've talked and joked about sex with my friends for years too, and I'm comfortable on here.

Would you ever participate in group sex?
I think a threesome would be far enough. Like I said with the sex in the same room as friends having sex, I wouldn't like sharing or switching being made.

How does your partner feel about some of your views on sexuality?
He's okay with me being open minded/pansexual. It's what led to the threesome discussion. As far as I know and we've discussed, he's straight without a doubt.

Do you have any strange fetishes?
Nope. I thought BDSM would be one, but I can't take the role seriously and end up laughing or snickering. ^^;

Do you think food and sex go well together?
Yay, messy fun! I guess so, but I've yet to try or discuss it.

Do you smoke after sex? Do you smoke during sex?
We don't smoke, and it'd spoil the mood for me if he did smoke and lit one up afterwards. There definitely wouldn't be any smoking in my house - go outside for that shit.

[motscroises]

How many of you on the glorious FF forum are in a commited relationship?
I'm committed to being single.

How many of you are curious about how others view relationships?
Physical or emotional relationships? As far as sex goes, I am curious about what other people are doing...I would want to know if they're trying something new and fun that I could try out myself

Emotionally speaking though...I don't see the benefit in seeking other people's opinions. It would get confusing and my opinion is the only one that matters when it comes to my feelings anyways.

Have you had a threesome whilst being in a commited relationship? Did it damage it?
No. I think it's a single person thing. I remember my ex once mentioned that he wouldn't mind my friend joining us...it made things really awkward.

Are there things you wouldn't do in a relationship?
No. I'd try just about anything once I think. Including the mistake type things.

How early is too early to get married?
Idk...I'd just do it when I want to. I don't really see that much benefit in getting married tbh...except the party and the awesome dress ofc.

Is there such thing as true love? Could a pornstar be capable of love? What is love? Baby dont hurt me?
True love? Idk...not like how we picture it. I don't think you will ever be as happy as you convince yourself you should be. There are crappy things about everything. This idea of a 'perfect love' is crazy to me and not healthy. You shouldn't let faults in a relationship bother you to the point where you convince yourself that you don't have 'true love'. Love is love. If there is love, you can make a relationship work...so long as circumstances permit.

Yes, they can have love. Pornstars aren't all heartless sociopaths incapable of emotion. I am sure it would be a difficult relationship to manage though.

Do you think its a good idea to bring sex toys into a relationship if the man feels inadequate?
I don't see why not, I enjoy sex toys. I don't see how an insecure guy would like sex toys though...I'd think he'd feel threatened.

Are you comfortable having sex in front of your friends (whilst they may be performing also.)
I've never really thought about it.

Are you against oral sex?
I'm not against it if he knows what he is doing.

Do you even enjoy sex? Do you do it for her/him? (because they want it and you dont)
Yes, I love sex. There was a point when I didn't enjoy it though. My ex would ASK for sex 10 minutes before bed after ignoring me all day. It was such a turnoff. I hated it because I also felt like he directly asked so he could keep tally of the number of times I said no so that he could...idk, guilt me for not wanting to. Even though he put no effort into making the mood right.

There were a few times when I did it just because I knew somewhere in the back of my head 'It's been over a week...guess I either have to talk to him about this or have sex with him.' Sometimes I took it upon myself to try to teach a little bit and explain where my head was at, but he'd just get defensive so I just gave up.

Have you been caught?
Yes. My first time I got caught. Soooo awful.

Are you shy when it comes to topics like this?
Apparently not

Would you ever participate in group sex?
Probably

How does your partner feel about some of your views on sexuality?
I don't have a regular partner.

Do you have any strange fetishes?
Not really

Do you think food and sex go well together?
Yes! I love whipped cream.

Do you smoke after sex? Do you smoke during sex?
I'm allergic to cigarettes. So...no.

[che]

How many of you on the glorious FF forum are in a commited relationship?
I am single.

How many of you are curious about how others view relationships?
Definitely like to hear other points of views.

Have you had a threesome whilst being in a commited relationship? Did it damage it?
I have not had a threesome.

Are there things you wouldn't do in a relationship?
Uh, sexually? Besides peeing on someone or any of that stuff (which I guess can be considered sexual to some people), no.

How early is too early to get married?
I imagine dating someone for at the very least a while before you can really decide it's time. Though, I'm not opposed to being wrong. I feel silly setting a minimum number of years or something like that, as I don't really think there is a right answer here. You get married when you want to spend the rest of your life with someone.

Is there such thing as true love? Could a pornstar be capable of love? What is love? Baby dont hurt me?
True love? Like loving one person and one person only? I don't believe in that. I think there are many people you can be attracted to both physically, mentally, emotionally, etc etc. Meeting one of those people and finding out they feel the same about you is something special.

Do you think its a good idea to bring sex toys into a relationship if the man feels inadequate?
Whether the man is inadequate or not is irrelevant. If a partner wants to use toys, why not? Why would I deny my partner pleasure for any reason?

Are you comfortable having sex in front of your friends (whilst they may be performing also.)
I really don't give a shit, as long as it's not malicious. I'd have to know my partner was cool with it too. But if people want to watch, sure.

Are you against oral sex?
I'm pro-oral sex 200%. I will fight you.

Do you even enjoy sex? Do you do it for her/him? (because they want it and you dont)
I love sex! I do it for both, but the thing that makes me feel best is giving my partner pleasure. That's such a turn on for me.

Have you been caught?
Yeah. First time ever. Bunch of friends busted in.

Are you shy when it comes to topics like this?
Nope.

Would you ever participate in group sex?
Yes. Though obviously it has to be under the right circumstances.

How does your partner feel about some of your views on sexuality?
Don't have a partner.

Do you have any strange fetishes?
Um...nope.

Do you think food and sex go well together?
Um...I dunno. I usually eat before/after. I'm not opposed to during but I am usually too focused and hunger is kind of on the backburner. Unless you mean oral sex. He ehehehehehe.

Do you smoke after sex? Do you smoke during sex?
Marijuana? Yes. Cigarettes? No.

[loaf]

How many of you on the glorious FF forum are in a commited relationship?
I am single.

How many of you are curious about how others view relationships?
Definitely like to hear other points of views.

Have you had a threesome whilst being in a commited relationship? Did it damage it?
I have not had a threesome.

Are there things you wouldn't do in a relationship?
Scat.

How early is too early to get married?
That's really an opinion based on the couple.

Is there such thing as true love? Could a pornstar be capable of love? What is love? Baby dont hurt me?
Pornstars find love. Love is what you make it. True or not.

Do you think its a good idea to bring sex toys into a relationship if the man feels inadequate?
Whateva

Are you comfortable having sex in front of your friends (whilst they may be performing also.)
I've banged in front of a friend. I've banged in front of my best friend. I've also banged in front of 2 strangers.

Are you against oral sex?
I'm pro-oral sex 200%. I will fight you. (Cause Che puts it the best)

Do you even enjoy sex? Do you do it for her/him? (because they want it and you dont)
I like to ****.

Have you been caught?
Nope.

Are you shy when it comes to topics like this?
Nope.

Would you ever participate in group sex?
Sure.

How does your partner feel about some of your views on sexuality?
Don't have a partner.

Do you have any strange fetishes?
nah

Do you think food and sex go well together?
lolnah

Do you smoke after sex? Do you smoke during sex?
Yee

[OceanEyes28]

How many of you on the glorious FF forum are in a committed* relationship?
Meee

How many of you are curious about how others view relationships?
I think it's wise to look outside of your own relationship for a little perspective.

Have you had a threesome whilst being in a committed relationship? Did it damage it?
Haven't had a threesome.

Are there things you wouldn't do in a relationship?
lol cheat? I guess that's obvious. Don't really want him to pee or poop on me. Not trying to get slapped in the face either. Basically, I won't do anything we're not both comfortable with.

How early is too early to get married?
If you're ready for a wedding, but not a marriage, it's probably too early. But if you're down to spend the rest of your life sharing a bed and bathroom with that person (pooooop), who am I to judge the timeline of your relationship?

Is there such thing as true love? Could a pornstar be capable of love? What is love? Baby dont hurt me?
Lol. Love is awesome and different for everybody. I think porn stars are perfectly capable of love, but what they need out of a relationship will differ from what I need. Some people do not struggle with jealousy and want to have sexual freedom while still having a companion they can come back to. They should find someone who feels the same.

Do you think its a good idea to bring sex toys into a relationship if the man feels inadequate?
Sex toys are awesome and make life easier and I hate when men are threatened by them. It's such a shame. Are you having sex to make you and your partner feel good, or are you having sex to boost your ego and get a nut (ew)? Mutual enjoyment and a willingness to be open are very important to me. We don't always use a toy (in fact, most times we don't), but it's a nice option. I take longer to get off than he does, so toys give us some variety in how we get me there.

Are you comfortable having sex in front of your friends (whilst they may be performing also.)
Haha I don't know. I'm pretty sure friends have heard us having sex before, but it's never been a "hey come watch" thing. I don't think I'd be embarrassed about it, but I don't think I want to see any of my friends having sex... and they probably feel the same way about me.

Are you against oral sex?
WHAT? I'm very pro-oral. I like when he gets down and I like going down. We both do it often and spontaneously, sometimes as foreplay, sometimes as a favor all by itself. We are very happy.

Do you even enjoy sex? Do you do it for her/him? (because they want it and you dont)
Yes, I enjoy sex. The only times I don't want to have sex are when something hurts or when I'm mad. If I'm tired, I can probably be woken up if he plays his cards right. If I'm sad, I will probably feel better after an orgasm. Though, every now and then, he'll have trouble falling asleep so I'll initiate sex when I would have otherwise just gone to sleep.... 5 minutes after, he's peacefully snoozing through the night. However, if one of us is absolutely not in the mood for one reason or another (it happens), we respect that and know we'll get it later when they feel better. In the meantime, spoons.

Have you been caught?
Haha we've been almost walked in on, but have been able to cover up in time. The other person knew what we had been doing, but was spared the visual.

Are you shy when it comes to topics like this?
I've never been shy about discussing sex. I don't think anyone should be.

Would you ever participate in group sex?
Never say never, although it's not a priority of mine.

How does your partner feel about some of your views on sexuality?
He loves my willingness to discuss it and be openly sexual with him. Apparently, previous girlfriends were a bit repressed and hated to talk about it. Made him feel guilty for wanting it, which is sad.

Do you have any strange fetishes?
Not really. I have a little kink, but mostly I'm into the intimacy of sex.

Do you think food and sex go well together?
I love both of those things, but I usually keep them separate. Although, protip, coconut oil makes a lovely lubricant. And tastes/smells good too!

Do you smoke after sex? Do you smoke during sex?
Haha not cigarettes.

[midgetbob]

How many of you on the glorious FF forum are in a commited relationship?
5 Months officially... we've been 'together' for longer though.

How many of you are curious about how others view relationships?
I like to hear other's views, but they're usually stupid. Sometimes I wonder how people can rationalize things that are so blatantly damaging... but what is 'love' if not rationalizing and compromising

Have you had a threesome whilst being in a commited relationship? Did it damage it?
Yes. One relationship: no damage; Another: annihilation level damage. Argument level over 9000.

Are there things you wouldn't do in a relationship?
Ummm... in the sexy time aspect? I don't plan on defecating on or getting defecated on by anyone.

How early is too early to get married?
There isn't really a right or wrong answer... it's about how you feel. Personally, longer than a few months... people can only hide crazy for so long...

Is there such thing as true love? Could a pornstar be capable of love? What is love? Baby dont hurt me?
Hmmm... idk. True Love is too opinionated. You can love someone, they can love you... if you both can handle each others crazy and are happy? I guess you could call that true love.

Do you think its a good idea to bring sex toys into a relationship if the man feels inadequate?
Meh, they've never bothered me... I've even grabbed them before on my own volition to use on her. It's just an aide for her and her pleasure... which is a turn on for me anyways. I'm a giver. <3


Are you comfortable having sex in front of your friends (whilst they may be performing also.)
Been there, done that. Didn't really pay attention to them, was too busy.


Are you against oral sex?
I'm pro-oral sex 5000%. I will fight you. And I will beat Che.

Do you even enjoy sex? Do you do it for her/him? (because they want it and you dont)
I love sex! I do it for both of us... and... I've also done it because they wanted it. Unbeknownst to most... guys aren't ALWAYS in the mood. Well... we are, but have other reasons that keep us from participating... like out of roofies... (Looking at you... yep, you. I know what you do).

Have you been caught?
Yes... both by family and friends... meh.

Are you shy when it comes to topics like this?
No. This should be the first question so they can leave the rest of the post blank.

Would you ever participate in group sex?
Yes. Though obviously it has to be under the right circumstances. most likely if I wasn't in a relationship. It most usually will cause some kind of problem.

How does your partner feel about some of your views on sexuality?
She's pretty much on par with me. It's a good match.

Do you have any strange fetishes?
Strange fetishes? Umm... fetish by definition is something strange and abnormal. So

Do you think food and sex go well together?
Whipped cream, honey, chocolate, ice cubes... yes... all of it.

Do you smoke after sex? Do you smoke during sex?
nope, not a smoker.

[IcyJJ]

How many of you on the glorious FF forum are in a commited relationship?
I am, currently 6 3/4 years together, 2 3/4 years married.

How many of you are curious about how others view relationships?
Not really, I know or will learn what works for my relationship, but I will help others if they ask for advise.

Have you had a threesome whilst being in a commited relationship? Did it damage it?
Nope, but the wife and I might be open to it should it come along.

Are there things you wouldn't do in a relationship?
Not sure, I am open to experiences, but it would depend on what would come up.

How early is too early to get married?
Whatever the law for your state/country says. Other than that, I feel if two people love each other and understand everything that is involved with being in a relationship, go for it. I proposed to my wife at 20. We got married when I was 24. No age limit there.

Is there such thing as true love? Could a pornstar be capable of love? What is love? Baby dont hurt me?
I believe there is true love, I have it. As for a pornstar, yeah, anyone is capable to love.

Do you think its a good idea to bring sex toys into a relationship if the man feels inadequate?
Why not, it depends on the couple, but if they feel that they need/want them, it is up for them to decide.

Are you comfortable having sex in front of your friends (whilst they may be performing also.)
Yeah, had an experience with a friend couple. It was fun and would enjoy it again. I would like the couple to be friends.

Are you against oral sex?
Not at all, I prefer to give oral than to receive most of the time. It makes the lady happy.

Do you even enjoy sex? Do you do it for her/him? (because they want it and you dont)
Oh yeah, it is amazing. We don't have that issue. We only have sex when we both want to.

Have you been caught?
By a friend/roommate. Me and three of my friends had rented a house. My room didn't have a door, but a blanket covering the entryway. My wife (girlfriend at the time) and I were in the middle, under the blankets and just had the TV on. My roommate just walks in, wondering what we were watching. Luckily, nothing was exposed.

Are you shy when it comes to topics like this?
Nah, I feel this topic shouldn't be as taboo as it seems. It is something that everyone does.

Would you ever participate in group sex?
Depends on the friends.

How does your partner feel about some of your views on sexuality?
We both respect all others when it comes to their sexuality. We know what the other wants, but when it comes to other people, that is their business.

Do you have any strange fetishes?
No

Do you think food and sex go well together?
Whipped cream and chocolate sauce. More sweets on the sweetie.

Do you smoke after sex? Do you smoke during sex?
We don't smoke.