Why is it the man that proposes to the woman? I've always wondered this about this tradition and there is probably some history to it. I could always google this I suppose but in the interest of keeping the forums active, I thought I'd ask you all what you think. Theres a day where women are allowed to propose to men, I think that sucks. I'd hate to be proposed to and put on the spotlight, but i assume women like that kind of thing. So whats the deal?