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I have a boyfriend, so I don't generally need to do this anymore.
Besides, once you have sex, masturbation becomes less pleasurable, so the need to do it lessens.
I'm sure others that aren't virgins will agree with me on this one.
I find that only younger people within the peak of puberty (especially females in many cases) and virgins are the ones that do it a shitload. That and seriously horny guys.
I don't do it a lot... I prefer the company of my boyfriend, if you catch my drift.
damn,there are so many names for da masturbation like:spank da monkey,tame da dragon,shake hands with da president,polish the gun,**** da hand...there are more (duh) but I dont know to translate them ;D
and...masturbation is like making love with your most favorite person !!! YOU !!!
Sometimes fantasy just wont do it...so ...watch porn !!!!
SoDy out ( got some important thing to do ;D )
Hahaha I must be one of the seriously horny guys then :above:Quote:
Originally Posted by Chez Daja
Even when I am in a relationship I still tend to masturbate daily, and I don't really think that I have a sex drive which is anything out of the ordinary.
As some people here have already said, it is a great stress reliever and a very easy way to take off some preasure. Some times the very thought of engaging in lengthy physical activity with the missus just to relieve yourself is pretty exhausting. It's much easier and much more pleasant in those cases to "take care of yourself" and just get it over with.
Oh yeah, as soon as my girlfriend leaves the house and leave me alone, I masturbate like a wild dragon when she's gone :D Overall I just think that masturbating to me covers some different needs than those of sex.
I think it's the same thing with most guys eh. It just relaxes you. lol. Plenty of guys that I know, including myself, even when in a relationship, :Spyfap: regularly. Cuz it's not like you're having sex every night when you're in a relationship.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sir Kenneth
Well that becomes kind of hard if you have a specific taste *cough*jailbait*cough* which is illegal.Quote:
Originally Posted by Chez Daja
I just have to use my mind to get off until they lower the age of consent a little lower. Also most guys are sexually active during their 20s and girls even later so I'd say in a few years you'll be ;)
Let me first say that I am utterly thrilled that this is something people are actually openly talking about. I despise the stigma that surrounds this sort of thing when discussed publicly.
Oh my, oh my... When I saw you write this question I got a bit of an evil grin thing on my face. It just trips me out to see someone who is "innocent" in that respect. But hey that's cool. I've known a few people who legitimately haven't done that sort of thing. Not even because it was against some moral principle they had, they just never got curious about it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Bleachfangirl
But yeah, as the poll will show you, it's typically a twice a day thing for me. I usually do it at night before I go to bed, but sometimes I take advantage of the morning masturbation as well. Starts the day out right, ya know?
Sometimes I'll purposefully try to ease up though, because there is a quantity vs. quality issue. I'm sure some will agree that doing it once a week can feel a lot better than doing it multiple times a day.
I have a question I want to ask to supplement this. Do any of you ever find yourselves in a routine of sorts? Like, do you find yourself touching yourself not because you're randy but simply because you usually do it at a certain time of day, or because there's nothing else to do?
Dude, you may not be able to say it in English, but I think I know exactly where you're comin from bro. And WHEEEEEEEEEEE is exactly right. Amen.Quote:
Originally Posted by Shadow Of Darkness
I totally agree, FIGHT THE URGE TO BE COOL! :pQuote:
Originally Posted by Sinister
Seriously though, there are some people that would rather wait to feel that great pleasure for the first time with their lover during actual sex. I totally respect that.
I know at one point, and still occasionally every now and then, I kind of feel bad for doing it and wish I could be one of those people who can wait and not be a slave to desire, but your body becomes somewhat addicted to it like a drug, and as everyone else said, it really is a good stress reliever.
I'm not crazy though (I just can't see myself doing it several times a day), I generally do it once a night in bed. MAYBE twice if I have some extra "stimulation" I really don't do it in the morning, although today was a strange case, seeing this topic.
When I've been in a relationship I noticed I've stopped doing it, but unfortunately I haven't been too lucky these past couple of years :(
Yeah I know what you mean. It's like when I wait a while and then try it again it's the same great pleasure all over again. Rather than a daily habit that just starts to get dull after a while.Quote:
Originally Posted by Lethal Seraphim
Same with me. When I was with my gf I've been known to go a whole 2 years without:Spyfap:. But then again there were also some times that I got action by:Spyfap: and then again with my gf. Seems like I last longer when I :Spyfap: before goin at it with a lady.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cain Highwind
ah, threads old members clearly remember and miss that they aren't that occasionaly on tff anymore.
Hmm, when boredom strikes and a bukkake movie is nearby it happens sometimes I guess, weekly maybe, not too often. Maybe I'm too lazy :o
And kids, remember. switch off left and right to get both arms pumped up ;)
Peace out
Interesting. I think it was Leonardo Da Vinci who claimed that a person's subjective view of human beauty is based upon one's own appearance. Thus: you fall in love or are aroused by someone with similar features.Quote:
Originally Posted by Shadow Of Darkness
anyway...:P
After experiencing both the company of a beautiful woman and then :Spyfap:, I prefer the former.
-Sin
Hahahaha! So young, yet already this thread is a legend! I wish I had thought of it ;!
Anywayz, to answer the very interesting question, I bash the bishop around three times a day. But then if I have a fine lady friend I just tend to let her do all the work for me :p
And for those who can't seem to "get to grips" with themselves, wtf?? Watch some porn or go to youporn.com. Let the juices flow! If that don't work, then perhaps you suffer from impotence... try out a wide range of viagra.
Also, why does this thread say 18+? Or is that a joke? Kids start playing with themselves from puberty, which is at around 11-12. Its not wrong, just natural ;)
oh i know that peope start to masturbate at a much younger age than 18, the point is that its a thread of sexual nature and this is a final fantasy forums not a adult oriented message board, even though many people are over the age of 18, its still has many younger posters, and they or their parents may not appreciate a thread about masturbation on a public board.
i usually wouldn't care, but i like to try and follow the rules every now and again.
You see the weird thing about it is that some days, i'll be the horniest mother****er ever. During those days i may even go 3 to 4 times easily. Yet sometimes i may not even go once. I love how the hormones kick in on a random basis...
Also, i have to agree with many who state that relationships greatly reduce the..umm..."necessity" to whack off. I haven't had too much sex but trust me when i say that head was more than enough...although i'm not a big fan of giving my end of the bargain on oral sex....mainly due to personal reasons lmao...use your imagination there....
That being said, Jack in and Jack off :D
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Originally Posted by Winter
A lot wait, but men seem to masturbate more than women whether they're sexually active or not... I'm not saying women don't want sex just as much, I'm just saying that men seem to masturbate a lot more.
I don't understand this part of the post. You're talking about being sexually active, and I already am, so I don't really understand what you're trying to tell me. :p.Quote:
Originally Posted by Winter
Sexually active means you're not a virgin, many people get that mixed up with how crazy your sex drive is.
I feel the same about everything said here. It's not something I am proud of. I will admit to it, but I am not glad that I do it. It is against my moral code, as would be premarital sex (at the very least, I will make sure that is saved for my wedding night). It's something I struggle against on a daily basis. The worst part about it is that I never used to do it, but then one day I did, and I could not stop. Although it's illogical to just say "I'm never going to do it again." That puts all the pressure on you, and is setting you up to fall face first. I've set a goal to not do it for a week (lol. Why is that funny to me? I am actually laughing at myself... heh.) If I can last a week, I will see if I can last another. Anyhoo...Quote:
Originally Posted by Cain Highwind
Wuv, Yer Mom
I dunno why im even posting, but whatever, I think I take the stance of bleachfangirl but I don't find it so much funny as kind of gross... but what can I say, ive turned kind of prude with this secret dark side in me that is still attracted to this kind of stuff
If you want an honest answer, the proverbial monkey as people have stated has not been spanked since I was 17... so thats 4 years
And its pretty much going to stay that way until I get married. I don't even feel sexually frustrated either. I think Cain hit the nail on the head with this comment
I actually feel better now than I did as a slave to my own passions back then. It is a unique sense of feeling freedom from oneself.Quote:
Originally Posted by Cain Highwind
But, I guess im just a prude that way
That raises an interesting point. Those among us who associate some sort of wrong with masturbation, or at least some sort of moral stigma, seem to feel freer in not doing it, while those of us who have no moral qualms with it feel free in doing it at our convenience.
Nature vs. Nurture, anyone?
This is one hell of a topic I'll tell ya! I as you may have seen on my other posts am a very horny way too horny Satyriasis, I do it at the least 2 times a day that is only somtimes though. Most days though It is about 5-6 times a day and each time I still release good loads of Cum must be all my testastrone and protein:lol: I get into it most when I look up my Dirty fetishes like lesbian S**t sex:lick: and oops Ive sait too much!
I mean highly sexual creatures, perhaps you misunderstood when I said "sexually active".Quote:
Originally Posted by Chez Daja
For example males are most sexual during their early 20s where as women become more sexual the older the get well into their 30s and sometimes their 40's. I think its a hormone thing because guys are more focused on their sexuality during their teens where as females start slightly later. There was a documentary on TV about it.
I hate to admit it, but I average 3-4 times a week.., I WISH I do it 3-4 times a day, but I just don't. Mainly cause when I do, it takes an hour...
I like to hold off as long as possible, you see. Makes for some powerful climax.
I find the best time to masturbate is after I work out. Because after I exercise, my body is drenched in endorphins which heightens the sexual pleasure.
When I remember, mostly. I know that sounds silly. I don't just get spontaneously aroused (or whatever provokes people into doing it) when I'm by myself very often. Around my boyfriend, yes. But sitting in my shitty room chainsmoking and lamenting winter with my teapot, or sitting in the kitchen drinking, or going out dancing...doesn't turn me on.
Though I will admit that since moving away from my boyfriend I have been remembering a little more, but I don't think I've ever even done it twice in one week.
Do you guys find that you just do it a lot.. less in a relationship? Regardless of whether you're getting any?
Recently, I've become un-single, and since then, I just haven't had the same 'urge' to go at it. It is still recent, and we haven't done anything, but I dunno. It just feels... strange.
That's just your body preparing you for married life. You know, when you actually have a debate over whether to have sex or watch a new episode of Grey's Anatomy. It's probably more arousing anyways.
If I'm in a relationship and I'm getting a decent amount of @$$, then I can go a LLOONNGGG time without mastubating.Quote:
Originally Posted by Casanova[OCAU]
On the other hand, if she isn't putting out as much as I would like for her to, then I might :Spyfap: once a week or so. So yeah, I think relationships play a major role in how much auto-erotica takes place.
Seemingly contrary to pretty much everybody else here, the level I do it doesn't really decrease or increase at all when I'm in a relationship. Seems to be pretty much the same as always.Quote:
Originally Posted by Casanova[OCAU]
Although both are done for sexual pleasure, I think that sex and masturbating can be quite different. Can do things with another person/other people that you can't by yourself and vice versa. Maybe that has something to do with it.
you know since im only 14 and i am obviously not gettin any (except for lie twice), i seem to do it about once or twice a day. Usually in bed before i fall asleep. So ya
Well..it is true Casanova. I hadn't been doing it as often when i was with my old gf...which makes me wonder since we weren't too sexual as a couple. But oddly enough, i also find myself rubbing one out more often on days where i have nothing to do. It just seems to kick in more often when you have nothing to think about.
It's like a sudden rush to brush...
Meh...
I don't even bother with it anymore. Since sex with my boyfriend became an available option, I don't need masturbation, nor does it satisfy me whatsoever. Only sex with my boyfriend "works" if you get me.
He turns me on, but nothing else really does. We're in a long distance relationship, and sexual frustation builds up madly. That's why we often rush to a quiet place when we get together. ;!
this is weird. It's a little strange to be talking about something like this, but yeah. i don't do it and i don't want to. there's no point since i don't need to do that and don't get those urges. some of my guy friends do and it scares the crap out of me. its surprising how some people do it so much. Doesn't that hurt?
It's not strange when everybody does it. That's the same reason why the option "I don't do that" isn't even in the poll. You must be pretty young since you don't even get the urges. It shouldn't scare the crap out of anyone. It's a totally natural and healthy part of human existence. And it doesn't hurt at all. It feels good, otherwise we wouldn't do it at all.Quote:
Originally Posted by CurryRice