How many times of actuality? 18+, kids.

[Saransoah]

I'm 17 and I'm a virgin...Its not easy. Part of me wants to wait but part of me doesn't. I could have sex with an ex girlfriend but there isn't really anywhere convienent to do it. I had the same attitude as that fencer guy does, I was just waiting for it to come to me than try and go out and get it.

[DragonHeart]

Never. I've never been in a physical relationship with anyone, never mind one that got serious. Just immune to social/peer pressure I guess. I mean, I've never felt forced, like I needed to go out and lose my virginity just for the sake of saying I've had sex, or whatever other reasoning kids use these days. Honestly I'm just not really interested in it, at least not at the physical level.

That's how I am, though. I've found that I don't need to be around other people to be content. I don't generally seek out relationships with others, serious or otherwise. I don't shun them by any means, but I don't particularly feel the need to be social. Or physical, for that matter.

I suppose that just means that when(if) it does happen, it'll be someone really special, cause I'd never go that far otherwise.

~DragonHeart~

[Cheesevixen]

18-29 year olds have sex an average of 112 times per year??? I average at 144, and I barely get any at all. That is really sad Once every three days is a low number....right? Someone help me out on this one because it honestly does make me really angery.

[Koda]

Why be angry over it? It's a natural thing, but if you don't have sex as often as you'd like to, it's nothing to get angry over. Unless you plan on just going out and taking whatever you can find. Not especially a good idea.....my opinion on the whole subject is that it isn't the most important thing in a person's life. It depends on the individual really. There are those that crave it, and those that look at it the complete opposite. I guess it depends on the age and obviously who you are with. Basically I think this is a ridiculous thread. With all that goes on in everyone's lives on a daily basis and all the problems throughout our countries, who cares how often anyone has sex. It's no one's business really. Do you honestly broadcast your sex life to everyone?? This one needs to be put back in the vault and left there.

[Meier Link]

Then why did you revive the thread, no one has posted in it in over 2 weeks. It was almost bumped out to page 2 and generally around here, threads are as good as dead when they hit page 2.

But to be on topic, I would have to say I am in the average area for my age. And thats pretty dang good seeing that I am married and technically the honeymoon has been over for a while haha. When I got with my wife I think I was averaging about 450 a year haha.

Do you honestly broadcast your sex life to everyone??

Obviously yes (general observation not soley limited to myself), people are more open now adays seeing that sex is made more public through everything. Sex isn't kept in the closet anymore, alot of people I know talk about it as easily as talking about the local football programs.

[Chez Daja]

It is sad, really, that sex is so much more public these days. I might just think like that because it's not a casual thing to me. I do have a post in here somewhere mentioning sex, but I don't think I go greatly indepth.

The average is 112? What the ****? That's wrong, for sure.

Unless that was counting the sex lives of people who were sexually open to one night stands and nothing else...

I'm in a long distance relationship right now and even I average more than that. Although, could be because we take our opportunities. I guess it all plays a role. Never mind.

[cherry-san]

no comment i hadn't have that in mind.. I can't do it.. sorry...

[Rinoas_Soul]

well i get it about once every 2 weeks. i have a bed buddy... who happens to be my best friend so it's not really wierd. it works out better for me that way. we don't have sex with anyone else so it's not like i have to worry about it being awkward.

[Rinoa.Heartilly]

Well I've had casual sex, but i really wish I hadn't. Its horribly degrading.

Well after March 14 (an update from the March 7th post), I had another boyfriend, Kyle about April it was at least 4-9 times a week. We had a lot of sex. And now its been a little over a month for me because we broke up.

[Wolf]

Well, as for me, I'm 18, and I'm a virgin. I haven't really done any really sexual. I've only had one girlfriend that broke up with me about a couple years ago. We dated for, 5 months if I remember correctly. The most I ever did was "feel her up" and make out with her. So yeah, not much compared to everyone else here, and I'm okay with that.

[Meier Link]

Kudo's go to you bro. That is nothing to be looked down apon. I myself made it to 18 before loosing my v-card with my ex. But I did have ALOT more experiance then it seems you do on all of the other stuff. Sorry for going off topic but I just had to congradulate you on that. Nowadays thats a rarity. Just try no to turn in to what I did if something ever happens between you and the one.

I will admit I used women, but never once treated them bad in anyway, only because I was hurt and took it out on the wrong people.

[Clint]

I've never been interested in sex, which is odd, I guess, because it's human nature to be interested in sex. I've always been more interested in books and knowledge. I never wanted to go socialize with anybody, because, quite frankly, people as a group do stupid things. Plus, there's all those stupid sexually transmitted diseases going around, which can be prevented from spreading if the carrier wasn't so selfish, and stopped having sex. In this day and age, participating in sexual activity is a very stupid thing to do if you're not planning on reproducing. And even if they are planning on reproducing, if one of the partners is a carrier of a sexually transmitted infection, then the child is going to have it as well, which is very cruel to the child. I'm surprised that people with incurable STD's haven't been quarantined.

[Chez Daja]

I've never been interested in sex, which is odd, I guess, because it's human nature to be interested in sex. I've always been more interested in books and knowledge. I never wanted to go socialize with anybody, because, quite frankly, people as a group do stupid things. Plus, there's all those stupid sexually transmitted diseases going around, which can be prevented from spreading if the carrier wasn't so selfish, and stopped having sex. In this day and age, participating in sexual activity is a very stupid thing to do if you're not planning on reproducing. And even if they are planning on reproducing, if one of the partners is a carrier of a sexually transmitted infection, then the child is going to have it as well, which is very cruel to the child. I'm surprised that people with incurable STD's haven't been quarantined.

Whilst I have sex and like it, I agree with you about social activity. In fact, I have no social circle at all apart from my boyfriend and our friend, and even then, I barely see our friend.

As for STD's passing from parent to child, the only STD that does that is HIV/AIDs. The herpes complex / coldsores, can pass from parent to child and can cause genital herpes if you say, wipe your lip and brush your hand over your crotch, but that's all I can think of that gets passed along.

[winterborn86]

I've had alot of sex since i was 16, through one night stands and in relationships, and i use to like it but it never bothered me whenever i had it, but during my pregnancy i turned into a right little rampant rabbit at it almost every night lolz, but since the birth i've just seemed to have lost my liking of it, i never want sex anymore, i don't miss it, in fact i could quite happily live the rest of my life without sex, but i dont half get a nagging of my partner tho
It's funny how pregnancy and birth can effect your sex life like that, i've read about it in lady mags hundreds of time

[Dr_Flea]

Ive never had it and i just turned 21 and Ive been in a relationship for 2 1/2 years.

I think its sad that if your still a virgin by the age of like 16 theres "somthing wrong with you." I get alot of carp from my friends for not having had any but i don't get what all the big fuss is about. then on the other side of the coin i actually don't know what im missining out on. but anyway ive lost track of what i was going to say..and now i can't remember.. if i remember i will post back.

~Dr_Flea~

[Pete]

How did I miss this thread?

I've had sex quite a lot in this little life o mine. Though it's only been with a grand total of three girls. Everything else had been shenanigans with other girls, lots of triples and a fair amount of doubles, if ya get me.

The first two girls were girlfriends. The first during high school and the second during college. Neither of those relationships ended well, with me ending it with GF1 cause I was leaving for college, and GF2 was a cheatin ho. Needless to say, there used to be lots of sex with them.

Girl 3 was a random hookup. Definitely not fulfilling at all. In fact, I really get the impression that we used each other to some extent, so I actually felt kinda like a dirtbag.

The moral of the story is to only go for it if you're sure about them. Plus, third base is pretty damn good in it's own right, and it keeps things a lot less complicated.

[Walter Sobchak]

How did I miss this thread?

I've had sex quite a lot in this little life o mine. Though it's only been with a grand total of three girls. Everything else had been shenanigans with other girls, lots of triples and a fair amount of doubles, if ya get me.

The first two girls were girlfriends. The first during high school and the second during college. Neither of those relationships ended well, with me ending it with GF1 cause I was leaving for college, and GF2 was a cheatin ho. Needless to say, there used to be lots of sex with them.

Girl 3 was a random hookup. Definitely not fulfilling at all. In fact, I really get the impression that we used each other to some extent, so I actually felt kinda like a dirtbag.

The moral of the story is to only go for it if you're sure about them. Plus, third base is pretty damn good in it's own right, and it keeps things a lot less complicated.

You only had sex with one girl in high school? This is me losing my idol worship for you.

I have found that sex has slowed down in my old age, despite living with my better half. I don't desire it as much as I used to, for whatever reason.

[Pete]

Haha sorry to disappoint. Like I said though, I was a triples king in HS though. Too many girls were still in that whole Catholic schoolgirl mentality. Nowadays, they'd be easy pickins, but I'm going for quality not quantity at this stage.

[Dark Squall]

Okay..This is my story...My moms friend raped me whan I was 15...Actually I was the one who was hitting on her but she was freakin hot!! and now, she's in jail

That was the greatest exprince I've ever had!

[CoOkiie]

Uhmm I wOuld have tO say when I was 15 haha. I was and I'm cOmpletely iin lOve wiith him. I didn't really keep cOunt Of the tiimes per day I'm still wiith hiim, we have an average Of 2 tiimes a day but Once i spent a whOle weekend wiith hiim, iit was abOut 10 times iin two days hahaha. Oh yeah
But I ain't a dirty persOn as yOu miight thiink sO dOn't start On me please haha I've seen wOrst stOriies arOund here haha =) lOve ya all. ♥

[Chez Daja]

I didn't really keep cOunt Of the tiimes per day I'm still wiith hiim, we have an average Of 2 tiimes a day but Once i spent a whOle weekend wiith hiim, iit was abOut 10 times iin two days hahaha.

Haha, yeah, I had a similar experience once. My boyfriend lives quite far away and we only had two days together on one of our visits. Needless to say, we made the most of it, and certain body parts were a little sore afterwards, haha.

[CoOkiie]

Haha, yeah, I had a similar experience once. My boyfriend lives quite far away and we only had two days together on one of our visits. Needless to say, we made the most of it, and certain body parts were a little sore afterwards, haha.

OMG! i tOtally understand! haha but it's wOrth iit haha. And Oh God! My bOyfriiend liives quiite far as well, well nOt that much, just liike 3 hOurs away by car. I lOve hiim and we dO tOo try tO make the best Out Of iit, but when we get iintO biig fights I dO sOmetiimes regret iit. We break up and then gO back tOgether... urgh haha.

[Rinoa.Heartilly]

3 months ehhh. wtf. Shit happens. I've had another hookup but only 3rd base. No Condom lol.

[Nocturne]

Actually been about 2 years or so since I last did. I was in a pretty serious relationship for a year and a half, but that has ended a good while ago.

Pretty much, every single day at least once. It wasnt uncommon if it was 2-3 times a day also. So the yearly average is more than double when I was doing it. Ive had 2 girlfriends, but only did anything with one of them.

Thing is, with 2 years of not doing anything, the frustration builds up crazily, at least for me lol.

[Rikkuffx]

I'm actually a virgin. I'm 21 so what? I dont need sex to make me happy or to feel good,or even feel good about myself. I do that on my own.I'm not saying thats only why people have sex,its clearly not. I just am saving for marriage,I honestly have had chances to lose it but I told the guy no,yea he was pissed and a few days later broke upw ith me but oh well when the time is right I will.

[Dead Angel]

I usually only ever have sex with someone I'm dating...but i once had sex with someone the first day i met them, and we ended up dating for 8 months! (which is also my longest and most serious relationship). I'm 20 and single at the moment so i haven't had any sex for several months, but when I was in the 8 month relationship, we were doing it every other day for almost the whole 8 months!

What can I say...I'm a horny girl.

[Lunasa]

I'm not sure how I missed this thread.

I'm eighteen, and I've never had sex. I've been asked out by a couple of Albany creepers, but other than that, I'm not a popular token with the opposite sex. I've never had a 'boyfriend' nor any physical relationship whatsoever, and the only guys I have ever kissed are family.

Am I sad about it? A little bit, honestly, and for the first time, I'm seeing myself subconsciously nominating candidates that I'd like to ask on dates or whatever. I'm getting a bit depressed about it, too and I'm not one to lie in dark depression. I can't sleep, I'm barely eating and I actually went to bed at 8pm, something I haven't done since I was 10. I guess it's been recent drama that's taking a toll on me, because the nice guys I've seen seem to be surrounded by truly vile people and anytime I try to get one alone, one of the vile girls seems to interfere. A week ago, I lost control of myself, and I actually almost clubbed one of the girls and beat her to a pulp. Luckily, my friend pulled me out of this. I'm in a bad state at the moment, so love for me is much needed, mainly because I want someone physical to listen to me vent, but even that is dangerous. If I get into a relationship now, it may be actually degrading.

Only once at a party did I ever get close to kissing somebody, but I owe it to my friend again that steered my completely wasted ass away. I wanted to get away from the guy, but my legs were like water and I was using a wall to support me and there were more people than I could comprehend there, so my head was spinning REALLY bad, so I didn't know what to do. Since then, I've been a bit scared of intimacy and being taken advantage of.