Do You Believe in Soul Mates?

Well I used to believe in soulmate untell this girl that I dated for a really long time and loved more than my own mother dumpped me week after I mved. so no I don't believe in soul mates anymore.

There isn't, and believing that there is, is in my opinion quite naive. Unless you define soulmate as someone who exceeds past a certain threshold when it comes to how well you fit together.
In that sense, yes, I believe that there are soul mates out there. I had one, but we recentely broke up and it was all revealed to me that our relationship was built on, I don't know, a misunderstanding? We were on two completely different levels.

Only shows that even when you think that you've found a soul mate , maybe you haven't, but perhaps that's all a part of the games we people like to play.
Who knows? God doesn't, neither do you.

But maybe Satan does...

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Ho hum. I've already posted here (odd, because I don't remember doing so - but the post is certainly my style), but since then my outlooks have changed a little. So rather than edit, here I go again.

Yes. I believe in soul mates. In both the romantic and platonic senses.

Platonically speaking, my opinions haven't changed. I stand by a soul mate, in the platonic sense, being someone that you would give your life for and someone who'd give their life for you. I believe that in this sense they are very close to you, share the same ideals and interests. People you're comfortable with in any situation and in whom you can confide.

Romantically, yes. I believe in them. I believe that there is someone for everyone - someone who brings out the best in them, that they can talk to about anything in the world, trust with their life and have an intimate relationship with.
With this, I think in some cases this love can grow from a platonic relationship into a romantic one - or the good old fashioned 'chemistry' or 'love at first sight'.
A romantic soul mate, I think, is the most attractive person in the universe to you in every sense. The one you'd want to be with each day for eternity.

Whether or not we find this person, however, is a whole other matter entirely. I guess some people just get lucky.

Yes. I believe in them.

I don't believe in the idea of soul mates so much as I believe in the idea of personality-mates.

I believe there's MULTIPLE people out there who match exactly what you're wanting and vice versa. The way they look, the way they act, how well their personality clicks with yours, goals/dreams/ambitions matching, interests matching, ect ect.

Personally I've only ever found one person in my lifetime I'd consider a "perfect match" however, it's just not meant to be...

Just a lot of people around the world that would match you on so many levels that you're a great couple.
Unless of course you're a ****ing freak that has weird fetishes..but then again there's the internet where there is probably somebody around that would match you (2girls1cup people have fun meeting eachother).
And soulmates just sounds gay seriously..

Peace out

I do believe in soul mates. Htere has got to be one specific person out there for everybody and if you are lucky enough to find this one girl/guy then you are almost garunteed to have a happy life with your soul mate. I am sure that at least 70% of people in the world never find there soul mate and a very small percent finds them but doesnt know it and never really gives them a chance. But there is still that lucky 20-30% who does find this one special person and I think that i found mine... <3

not really no.


But maybe for a few people there are a perfect match.

My logic tells me that soul mates don't really exist, but since logic is an annoying prick at times, and should be forgotten, I say yes. The reason I say yes is because what a person looks for in a mate is very ideal. A woman looks for somebody like her father. A man looks for somebody like his mother. When two people find those qualities with one another, it can't just be chance, because when you think about it, it seems impossible that a woman can seem like the man's mother, and the man can seem like the woman's father. Therefore, those two people are soul mates.

By the way, it would have been much funnier if this thread was called, "Do You Believe in Soup Mates?"

If your Soulmate is the one you love then how do you know you are in love? When it's over. If its not over then there's your answer.

Hmmm, I'm 50/50 on this one. I say 'yes' because with all of the people in the world, there has to be at least one that is perfect for you. I also don't agree because it could be hard to find him/her, and they could be across the world and you wouldn't know it.

To give you guys SOME insight on whether soulmates are ideal/impartial or whatever ya'll want to view them as.

I HAVE been in love before, a woman (her names Tierra) I've known since the 2nd grade (I'll be 20 in July), and have went with each about 2 1/2 years. We had experience experience with this at a young age. I won't bore you guys with the details of us but we were fit to be soulmates. It's just circumstance & life got in between us.

But now, I found another woman befitting for my beliefs/morales and she knows that.

In fact (whether if you guys believe me or not), back (even when I knew Tierra) when I was like 14 or 15 I had this dream. I was in a world scorched and incinerated to the ground. Burning, collasped buildings, houses, and NO people... just me. I walked into a city looking to see if there were someone still alive and I heard a cry for help. I went inside the house where I heard the echo of a woman's plea for help. When I carried her out of the house, she explained to me what was going on.

I vaguely remember EVERYTHING she had said but I still can say the crucial details. She had told me I was the ONLY one that could save her and no one else. Also 4-5 years from now, I would meet her. She told me some other things but I can't recall them. I even remember some of her features. she had dreads/twisties/locks and he had sort of a darker tone of caramel for her skin.

That woman is who I plan on making my wife a few years from now. Now if your dream of somebody, your dream TELLS you when you'll meet this person, and it happens.... doesn't that person fall under as a soulmate?

I don't think there is just that one person out there with whom you are destined to be with. I think that people create thier own destinies, and nothing is predetermined. So there can be many people out in the world that is compatible for you, it's just a matter of finding them and having a good relationship with them.

People always say that there are many fish in the sea, But how many of them are actually compatible with you?? and what are the chances of finding them ?? I think that even I f you find someone who you think is perfect for you there will always be someone better that you will never meet. Its a matter of finding that person that makes you happiest throughout yor lifetime that is in your reach. Soul Mate?? yes, does everyone find theirs.. I don't know..

I don't believe any souls were meant to be joined together forever and connect on all levels equally, no. I don't really believe in "true love".

I believe people have compatability with others based on personality, way of life, etc. You could have a future with a number of people, but you might only pursue one. I don't believe it's supernatural or anything weird, it's just naturally how it works.

I don't believe in soul mating. I believe in choice and decisions. To believe in soul mates is to believe in fate. We choose who we want to be with. We choose to do most life decisions that hit us((maybe fate does sort of exist, but I don't believe it's in control of us all the time)). So yeah, I like the idea of having a soul mate, butwhen it comes down to it, we make our decisions as to who we end up with, heh.

Never really believed in that "soul mate" crap, it sound's to perfect to be true. We are master of our own destiny and there is no way that some higher force is deciding with who I'll end up. We decide on our own be it god or bad decision.