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Odin1199
You guys see altruism, morality and desire to do good things as a psychological need or defense mechanism.
Right, because that's exactly what they are.
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Why not just see it in simpler terms as something that one just wants to do, because they just feel like it?
Those aren't simpler terms to see things in, just a less precise way of wording it. Why would anyone want to go out of their way to reduce precision?
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What's wrong with being good, wanting others to be as good or better than you, wishing people fortunes, success, even if you can't achieve it? Why is this so hard to understand and why do people need to over psychoanalyze everything anyone does that's good?
Nothing, nobody ever said it was 'wrong', that's a moral judgment. You are literally the only person in this thread who has equated egoism with bad, negativity, or any generally frowned upon social behaviors. There's nothing wrong with egoism, I just don't see the point in trying to delude oneself into thinking it isn't the fundamental motivator for all human action.
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That just speaks lack of trust, insecurity, inability to really connect with others. If you guys interpret everything people do is a psychological need or defense mechanism, then your faith in people as well as yourselves is pretty weak.
Again, no, not really. Once again I must point out that nobody here seems to think egoism is 'bad' other than you. I trust people to be people, that means following their own codes to their own ends, sometimes this leads to relationships from which I can benefit, sometimes it doesn't. Who's insecure? I understand myself and others as they really are. I can connect with others on a level most others can not, because I can understand people in ways that most people don't want to because they're bothered with the silly idea that egoism is bad, I am not. Faith is not relevant. I do not interpret things as needs and defenses, I recognize them as such, again because that is objectively, exactly what they are. It is precisely because I understand that people are driven by such a program that I have faith in their ability to survive, thrive, and conquer the world around them. It is because of that ultimate human desire to improve that we are what we are.
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Not everyone has problems with coping with reality and needs to devise ways of deluding, rationalizing or gratifying ourselves. Look at the top of the pyramid, acceptance is freeing yourself from your needs and accepting facts and reality. That means coping and looking at things the way they are, not subjectively, but objectively.
And that is precisely what I have been doing. That's a part of self actualization most others have trouble with, because they feel the need to rationalize their pride in their actions with a made up subjective system of morals.
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Just saying, don't overgeneralize things too much and have more faith. Morals aren't rules, laws or instruments for passing judgment, they're your values and if your values are good then there's nothing bad about them.
Again, absolutely NOBODY but you has termed anything good or bad, because those are moral judgments. I am not passing moral judgments, I am rejecting their validity.
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So there can never be such thing as objective thinking then? We're all there stuck on that pyramid, trying to follow our morals that we made up in our head to help us cope with the harshness of our realities and existence? Morals don't have to be subjective,
Of course there can, morality just isn't it. No, morals don't cope with anything, they simply justify the feelings we get for following our own values. The delusion is that those feelings are the result of following some sort of absolute laws, when inf act the only things we follow are our own subjective whims and desires. Morals do have to be subjective, I've explained it before, but I'll do so again. Moral claims are normative. Normative claims can not be supported only by factual claims. Only factual claims are objective, normative claims are subjective. In a regression argument, every normative conclusion must ultimately rely on a presumed normative premise, a subjective premise. That is the nature of logic, a moral claim MUSt by nature be subjective, because it literally can not be based on objective information.
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if you're objective. It's as simple as that. Then morals can be considered accurate or good. I feel like we're just going back and forth in circles and are missing something.
Whoa whoa whoa... are you SERIOUSLY suggesting that as long as we consider ourselves objective that we and all our subjective beliefs simply become objective? No. Just no. Again you're trying to pass moral judgment on morality. We're going in circles because your rebuttals continue to rely on the same circular reasoning.
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Why not just accept the generally accepted morals, because they're tested and revised over time by many people and follow objective pattern. Not talking about religious or philosophical morals. And not true, if you're mature enough, your thinking becomes more and more objective and less skewed. You don't need to be a Vulcan to do that.
So being widely accepted or long lived makes them less subjective, and more true? Sorry, no. The appeal to popularity and tradition are logical fallacies. Follow an objective pattern? Yes, that pattern is that they are all subjective ideas which lead to the same end, achievement of basic human psychological needs. That there is an objective pattern to nonsense doesn't make the nonsense any less nonsensical. You now commit the fallacy of composition, that the whole set can be categorized objectively does not mean that the characteristic of objectivity is shared by the constituents of the set.
There ARE no non religious or philosophical morals, morals do not exist in any objective sense, they exist only as an idea, as a philosophy.