I had an occasional problem like that with the PlayStation controller. But it wasn't so much to do with the controller itself, more the game that has me in a rush or require me to be quick.
My favorite controller, most people will say it, but probably the PlayStation controller. It's pretty simple, not too big *ahem*N64*.
Third party controllers? Not sure what that is, to be honest, so to the question, more than likely no.
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