Well you can always read some Shift to make the nightmares go away. ;p So I shouldn't be nice to you anymore then huh? ;p
Now I'm tempted to see it. I would do so now but I feel drowsy. Yet I don't want to fall back to sleep just yet. That nightmare was awful. I usually end up going for the nice ones, so you can say I have a good grasp on what I want. When someone's utterly nice to me, I can't help but feel infatuated. Anything after that would depend on how bold I'm feeling or how mean they actually are when I approach them.
Yeah, most people that I show Fruits Basket to love it. And the manga is even better than the anime. Wish that they would make more of the anime, since nothing really is resolved by the end. Well it is even harder to pin point the type of person that works once you leave the physical aspects. And I tend not to pay a lot of attention to what really attracts me to someone. It just sort of happens. So I don't focus on it.
I've heard good things about Fruits Basket so I might end up looking it up. I can't focus on so many things at once, but I can make a mental note and add that list to it. I didn't mean to make it sound in a physical sense, but I'm sure you knew what I meant based on your answer. In the end, personality does it for me as well. Having similar interests helps in keeping things interesting as it leaves room for conversation, but that's just me.
Most guys usually will favor Shounen over Shoujo. Fruits Basket is one of my favorites, but I also enjoyed Shinobi Life. My Little Monster has been very entertaining, Hiiro no Kakera is good if not a little slow at times. Utusumi Lily is really funny. I haven't a clue what reasons I find someone attractive. When their personality connects with mine seems to be the best answer I can give.
It sounds like you still have hopes it'll happen someday. What does attract you to someone, if you don't mind me asking? Also, what kind of shoujo would you recommend? No titles come to mind at this time. I'm more of a shounen kind of guy.
That's where being a hopeless romantic comes in. Read lots of shoujo and see all of the relationships falling apart and coming back together through trials.
I can tell you right now from experience that I truly know how that feels. I've been rejected by people I loved and have watched their hearts getting broken. They moved on and the process repeats itself, and the sad part is that I haven't been considered even once. People just don't feel that way about me. So I understand what you mean, the friendzone is not pretty. But we shouldn't give up on being ourselves, chances are you'll eventually find someone you thought you could only dream of, and the same can be said about me even though sometimes I have trouble believing t.
Well you do what you can and learn from what happens. It is the best that you can do. The problem with being likeable ends up putting you into the friendzone rather than a romantic one.
I was never good at this so it's pretty difficult for me. My high school years were awkward, but at least I'm a much better person than I was then. There's a girl I'll probably never see again because I wasn't bold enough to even ask for a name, so I learned from that. Then there's some friends who probably don't feel the same way, while everyone else are actually people I've met online and a bit far from where I am. I can kinda relate more to the latter than anyone else, as I usually go to gaming or anime forums. It's kind of a shame as far as your situation is. You're pretty likeable once someone gets to know you better.
Well you manage things how it works for you. Sometimes a little boldness is a good thing, because it can only lead to regret if you end up doing nothing.
You'll really never know for sure until they approach you (in whatever way they can) about it, or find out for yourself. I'm actually quite scared to let people know how I feel about them sometimes, as getting rejected could probably change or even destroy a friendship if it's not strong enough. Not because of me, but usually it's them who start seeing me differently because most of the time I want to reman friends. There's a few people I have in mind, but I don't plan on saying anything until I know for sure how they feel about me. Which is kinda sad.
So many things would be solved with being direct, but it's not that easy, sadly. Well as I said, outside of romantic relationships, I already know plenty of people with a significant age difference. I've no problem with it. I can get along with anyone so long as they aren't trying to be a jerk. As for romantic ones, it is a hard thing to know. There's been a couple that I've been interested in and I'm like they're more than ten years younger than me. I don't mind, but I'll admit it'd be a little weird and no clue how they'd feel about the age difference let alone about myself. Only ran into one person that was older than me of the romantic interest and I think it was only a few years apart. So it wasn't that big of an issue. I just don't think they see me like that, plus they are thousands of miles away.
I started to get the hint when she would start avoiding me, but unless they told me up front I'll always pretend never to understand an indirect message. I try to be honest as much as I can, and I understand people lie but would also appreciate it if people were more direct. But enough about me. Would age really matter to you in a relationship, romantic or otherwise?
Yeah that's understandable. Well if she gave up too easily it wasn't meant to be then. If she wanted it, she would have fought harder for it. Though I guess some will just give up when something stands in their way.
